How to gain my pride and dignity back after an unfair break up? feeling down..Really need your advise.?

[Paris]

It all started when suddenly he started ignoring my texts and calls, so i thought he might need his space and gave it to him..however i maintained to be friendly and not freaking out and waited until he is ready to explain what is going on and why he is acting so weird. after a week not hearing from him i tried to reach him and he pretty much put me down and broke up with me over a text msg, giving the "it's not you. it me" reason and that it's for best. nothing more or less. I was so shocked and upset that he did this over the text and not even giving a reason why..after a year being together and having a really good and fun relationship/friendship i deserved to know what i have done that made him to do this to me..anyway i went on No Contact for a month,,he didnt reach out to me either..we are still friends on facebook and he seems like having good time with his life, and happy (which im glad he is) but at the same time i am so hurt by his actions. After a month no contact I texted him pretty casual and friendly how he is doing, he read it and never responded..I feel like i gave him way to much power to treat me like this...

I'\m just so hurt and angry at myself to put myself in such position so he can treat me like crap. now after all this i know that i dont want to be with him anymore even if there is a chance.. I just want to get my dignity and respect back not letting him feel like he is in charge..just very emotional right now.. PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO.. GOD BLESS.. THANKS..

P.S NO MEAN COMMENTS PLEASE, YOU DONT KNOW WHAT PEOPLE GO THROUGH SOMETIMES. THANK YOU.

[elaeblue]

Quit blaming yourself. He is the one with an issue..he probably thought you wanted some commitment and some guys cant handle that.

Move on .. go out with friends and find a man who appreciates you! You can do it!

[Kaitlyn]

now.. he is a total ____
you gotta try your hardest to make it known that your the boss
smart off through texts even tho he dont reply he still reads it.
facebook him.
i would make a side account you dont want your reguler FB stuff banned just in case he's extremley stupid
but going off what you said he most likely is.
Good luck!!

[Muhamad Zul Fitri]

you should know what is pride and dignity,You know,I think you have your pride because you faith to him ,but I'm disappointed in him ,how could a man play with a woman's heart and still behave happy after leaving you....I don't know his problem, but, do not let that type of thing bugging you, Believe in me, you still have your pride and dignity....I believe that you will get a better man in your life..Good Luck!!!

[June]

Next time you meet a man dont give him sex for a few months you then may know his intentions.

[C]

Delete him from ur friends and move on. Cut off ALL contact with him. Everyday you'll get stronger and stronger. He needs to see you not pining over him and you'll do just that by showing your moving on.