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batmancheesecake · 03-24-2014, 11:32 AM

is it weird that people didnt like you in school wants to add you for a friend on facebook, should you trust them?

Missy · 03-24-2014, 11:42 AM

yeah, I've been thinking the same thing. So I'll accept them and then send them a message and they don't respond. Sounds like they're just trying to rack up their number of friends. Then, that reminds me why I'm so happy with the friends I have now! Smile

aha51806 · 03-24-2014, 11:43 AM

You should add them I guess, but if they start leaving bad comments on your wall, just delete them as a friend. Maybe they want to make amends... who knows. It won't hurt to add them, if one of yall become famous at least you can say yall were facebook friends, lol

Celeste · 03-24-2014, 11:48 AM

It depends on how you think.

First of all, they might be shy in making up with you and decide to talk to you without direct speech.

On the other hand, they might be just trying increase their number of friends on facebook. (And trust me...having a large number of friends does promote a sense of prestige and makes people jealous sometimes)

You say that they didn't like you...but do you like them?
Perhaps it won't hurt to add them as a friend for now, and see what happens. If they do leave negative comments on your wall, then you better delete them. If not, maybe you can actually use this opportunity to try talking to them if you're afraid. Who knows? Maybe facebook can be a way for resolving conflicts.

However, don't add them as a friend if you don't want them to see something in your profile.

Hope it helps! Smile

lomatar1186 · 03-24-2014, 11:53 AM

that didn't happen to me.

freefalling · 03-24-2014, 12:02 PM

depends on why they didn't like you, maybe they feel bad for what they did to you or vise versa, people do grow up and change and become a better person. I wouldn't meet up with them in person but over all a email couldn't hurt, if they are still the same delate them if you cant on facebook change to myspace you can then make it private to where only friends you want to see can see and rmove them as friends if you so choose later for what ever reason. Hope this helps.