boyfriend's mom wants to be facebook friends?

[that chick]

ok- the guy I'm dating is a commit ment phobe- mening he treats you more like a girlfriend if there are no labels--- I've accepted that bc I love him alot- and am scared to mention commtiment stuff because he may go away.

I've been dating a guy for about 2 years- we are not official- but we've been on vacation together, I've met his entire family on several occassions/ cook outs/ birthday parties- I even hung out with his mother. I go on movie dates with his sister- I've gone to his company picnic and met his boss and all his co-workers. -- so withthat said- I was hanging out with his mom- and she suggested that we be facebook friends-- which is awkward because-- her son and I aren't even facebook friends-- or technically in a relationship--- WHat should I do? I dont' want to offend her- I really

[Becky D]

you need to look at your relationship- you are technically together, i think after 2 years you should both accept that:-S really odd.
add him. add his mum. its normal.

[Fioriana]

You should be Facebook friends so you don't hur her feelings cause it's not like it'll hurt anything

[Joshua Garza]

Your boyfriend should cut the bullshit and be together with you, if you've done that much together than your practically together anyway, and with his mom thing, there's nothing wrong with that, if you hang out with her, in a way she's just another "girlfriend" that you hang with.

[me...]

you should be facebook friend with her............it doesn't matter at all.

[Shhh...]

Well if you're not facebook friends with the guy he may not notice if you become friends with him mom. You could also subtly ask her not to go announcing it to him. If he notices and freaks out you could just tell him he's overreacting and it's weird and he should stop...because he would be and it is if you've known him for 2 years...
If you don't want to be friends with her just tell her you don't really ever use/go on facebook but she can friend you if she wants. Be very casual and then if she does friend you don't touch the request. Then if she asks you about it just act like you didn't notice or forgot or something. Or make a joke. You can probably avoid it for some time and then they the guy's mom will probably mention it to him at some point or another and he'll tell you to just friend her so she stops obsessing over it. If she doesn't obsess over it, then you're home free anyway...
It may seem immature, but his commitment issues are pretty immature. Avoiding is sometimes just easier than dealing with people. It will work out eventually. Good luck

[SilverStar22]

it wouldn't hurt to be FB friends, i think your BF's mother is looking for a way to increase her relationship with you, i say add her, she seems to like you