Is it ok for my mother to invade my privacy?

[poooooof]

Ok the thing is my mother looked through my twitter account and She found some nasty things i said about her and my dad. She confronted me today but she kept denying looking thru my account despite using everything i said there against me. Although i feel really guilty for saying mean things i believe that it's wrongdoing on her part too. Because my parents have been invading my privacy since young, checking my phone messages, reading my diary, stalking my facebook account, reading my blog, and now my twitter account, and i have nowhere and nobody else to tell my problems/vent my anger to. And the worst part is she always tells all my relatives about this. So today she scolded me and said that i shouldn't announce my family problems to the world. But that's what she does, to my relatives. And the reason why i posted mean things about them is because my father YELLS at me for every single stupid minor thing i do that he does too and i can't say anything back despite how right i am so i have to stop myself from saying anything back or he'll call it talking back. And since i can't say anything to him i vent my anger by posting about it on twitter. But i don't understand, how did she manage to see my tweets? My tweets are protected. She must have checkedit from her iphone because i logged in from there before. So i'd like to ask 2 questions:

1. whose fault is it? Mine for saying mean things about my parents, or my mother because she invaded my privacy and read my tweets?
2. Is my mother going too far invading my privacy? And if she is how can i stop it.

Thanks

[Trunks97]

Yes we all need our own privacy....try changing ALL your passwords and emails from your facebook twitter and any other social sites and try locking your phone so she cant read your msgs it is your mothers fault for invading your privacy

[?]

Okay she is going way like overboard but srry I didn't read it all but it sounds ad if she is trying to protect you but idk my mom says you don't know what's out there and I don't want you to know how bad it could be and she checks my wall posts on fb (she dosnt know I have a skype or that I swear alot and she dosent know much of what I do because everything is locked) but she is trying to protect u oh and u could try to get her to trust you somehow

[KB]

Your mother is only trying to protect you from evil on the internet. It is not a good idea to vent your feelings on the net for all people to see. Make sure you delete what you say about your parents.

[noname93]

i understand what you're going through, my mother is the same way. what your mother needs to understand is that what you write is in the heat of the moment it isn't meant long term, people get angry and need to vent, maybe the internet isn't the best place to do so, but that's your way of doing it right? I wouldn't say you're mom is completely at fault she has the best intentions in just trying to find out whats going on in your life, but to confront you on some in the moment comments is a bit over board. Maybe if your pride isn't as big as mine, haha, you could apologize for the tweets and in a very polite manner just explain that sometimes writing what you're feeling is better than other options of venting. as for the "spilling your problems to the world while she spills to the whole family" i dont have much to say i'm still having that problem but after a serious talk my mom has lowered her gossip when it comes to me. goodluck!

[Darlene]

If you are under age your parents can get this info just by calling your carrier. Especially if they pay the bills. If you want respect give respect. Talk to your Mom about the situation, maybe you can work something out between yourselves. She should not invade your privacy, but we do not know the past history with you guys. So, it is hard to make a quick hard decision as to whose fault it is.