Long distance, losing my girl (long)?

[adventurefinn]

Long story short. We've known each other almost 4 years and we've been on and off but we love each other. A few months ago her and this guy started dating after we broke up, she told me she didn't like him but she was lonely. They broke up after a month. We got back together shortly after. He asked her to prom again and once again they started talking after we broke up. We then got back together and she said they were just friends. Her twitter isn't blocked and it was obvious they weren't just friends and she kept lying to me about it so we broke up. And shes with him AGAIN. But she said they aren't going to date because graduation is right around the corner. So what they're doing is absolutely pointless. I worked my ass off to be with this girl and this is how she repays me. She says if I moved there she would drop everything for me because she loves me.


I call bullshit because all that shouldn't have happened in the first place. I started talking to my ex again and I've always had feelings for her and they're getting stronger. I don't know which girl to choose. My ex treated me so much better than her and said I'm the only guy she's ever wanted and hasn't been with or dated anyone since we broke up. But I still love my long distance girl. I just don't know what to do.

Thanks for reading.
@Leslie I only broke up with her because I took my long distance girl back.

[sanjot]

all i can give you is sympathy my friend . This thing hurts .so screw the girl before the girl screws you.
P.S.-i think i understand you.

[Leslie]

It sounds to me like this long distance love of yours does not treat you well. A long distance relationship is very hard, and if you dont have trust, you dont have anything. You shouldn't have to move there for her to remain faithful to you. In fact I would never move for someone who cheats on me, lies about it and also blatantly does it on twitter. This girl has no respect for you and you deserve better. I understand that it is hard to get over someone you love, I've been there, but if you continue to stay with this girl I can only see her hurting you more in the long run. She needs to grow up and you shouldn't have to wait around until she does. As for your ex, I think you have to question why was she an ex? If that reason still stands then you should leave the past in the past. You dont want to end up hurting her. I think you need to sort out your feelings first before you go back to your ex. I have an article that I wrote about long distance relationships (as I am in one) and getting over an ex. I will put the link below. Good luck hun and know your worth!!!