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Girl Problems need some advice?
03-24-2014, 11:35 AM
Post: #1
Girl Problems need some advice?
So here it is. this girl i recently started talking to who has a amazing personality and everything rejected me. so here goes. not to long ago i started talking to this girl. she was friendly nice funny but quiet.
4 days ago so 3 days before valentines i wanted to give her something special. so i decided to give her the early card as a way of saying i like you. well i got a hug from it and all. so on valentines day i wanted to do something really nice. so a box of chocolates i thought would be nice.

so i started searching for her and couldn't find her. i finally found her and as she saw me she took off running away from me. she finally came back. i told her i had something for her and she looked so embarrassed but anyway i pulled out this box of chocolates and handed it to her in front of some of her friends again i got another hug but then she walked straight away from me again. i saw her later that day and she ran away again. this sounds so crazy but i started feeling like she doesn't want anything to do with me that was probably true. i saw her after school that day and i didn't want to walk up to her and say anything. so i simply left. we rarely spoke on Facebook as she would never reply. it sounds so silly saying it like this. almost like im stalking her. a few friends told me that she found it cute and was a really hard thing to do to someone you like. when ever i was around her she was so quiet never saying a thing. to be honest i have no clue if she likes more or anything i dont even care if we date its she is so friendly i like being around her. but its so hard now as she completely walks away. i have screwed this up so bad for myself. and its hard to forgive myself as we had a better friendship before i did all this i have completely screwed this up so bad i too feel bad. its not like i was trying to embarrass her maybe i did but i feel bad for what the outcome has turned out like.

to be honest she is one of the most beautiful girls i have ever seen and i thought i had a good relationship with her till i messed it up. but im not sure if i make it as bad as it sounds because i apologised on facebook saying something like im sorry if what i did embarrassed you today and 6 hours later i got a response saying you didnt embarrass me today. i think i might be over the top here making it worse then it sounds but i have no idea what to do with her. i personalty think after the reaction from her and what ive done. i should leave her alone. even after all the things ive done. im not saying she didn't appreciate them im just saying maybe she was not even interested in some guy giving her something special on valentines day. ive never done anything like that before so as my friend said it took balls. but i did it though my heart and what i thought was nice. i still think its nice but maybe she didn't think it was the right thing to do. she did say " he's so sweet though I guess" which could mean anything really. anyway that's about it to sum up my last 4 days. i cant believe saying 1 thing in a lesson could cause all this emotion. by now your probably thinking what is wrong with this guy but i would love to hear your advice and feedback on what to do next. i mean its the holidays now so i have a week off to forget and maybe she might forget so we can both start again. well i hope it goes like that. i still want to be friends. but i think ive messed it up to much.
thank you guys for reading this. im sorry for spelling or anything i was in a rush. i really want to say something to her on facebook right now like can we just be friends or im not starting anything i thought it was a sweet idea to brighten your day. but i just cant. not that im too scared but i dont want to mess it up or make her upset or unhappy again. well that's all i have..

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03-24-2014, 11:41 AM
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Ask her to go to the cinema or something pr just ask her out

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03-24-2014, 11:45 AM
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I think she isn't interested. I could be wrong of course. Just wait a few days and see if she contacts you, if not, then let her be. You could try again sometime in the future, but not now. Best of wishes!
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03-24-2014, 11:54 AM
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you should bring her to a carnival for some fun and building your relationship it would bring you and her closer (:
I wish my guy friend gave me a bunch of Chocolates and Snickers as a Valentine day gift I bet she is emotional and speechless idk cause you gave her something special in that fuzzy Holiday
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03-24-2014, 12:02 PM
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Normally, if a girl likes you you'll know, if she doesn't respond on Facebook and she's running away from you, chances are she's not interested. She obviously thinks your a "nice guy" but that's where it ends. Just my 100% honest opinion!
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