What do I do about her?

[Thisguy]

So this amazing girl came into my life like a year ago and I asked her out and she rejected me and then like 5 months later I asked her out again and sadly she rejected me again. But now about a month after the second rejection when we see each other on every few weekends (because we have a school activity together) she has been texting me and saying that I should come over and talk to her and our other friends but I would just make some excuse and not go. I've been avoiding her a lot when I am at our activity. I Barely ever talk to her. And she does has done this twice each time for the past two times I have seen her.
We also have this group chat on Facebook with some friends where I talk to her a lot. And today she said that I should let her know if I ever am in her city (which I come through sometimes) so me, her and some of our other friends who live there can hang out.
Then she also texts me sometimes which she initiates herself a lot which is great. And tonight I texted her happy new year and she asked a question after saying happy new year which made us talk up until about 30 minutes ago. So like 2 hours.

What does all of this mean? Should I keep talking to her and see where it goes again? Should I avoid her still? She is really REALLY nice so maybe she is just being nice to me and trying to make up for the rejection??

Thanks for listening and happy new year

[Kayla]

If she's rejected you twice, but is still that nice, she does like you as a friend, but nothing more. If you can hang out with her as a friend, and not hope it turns into anything more, great. Do it. But, if you still like her that way, you may need to find a way to move on first. I'm sure she's a really nice girl, but don't let her lead you on, and don't hang out with her to help her feel less guilty.

Whatever you decide, it might also be a good idea to talk to her. Let her know that what she's doing isn't fair to you. She probably doesn't even realize just how unfair she's being.