To all you boys/men out there, I need your opinion and advice!?

[Jules]

Alright so this is going to be a little long but I'd really appreciate it if you read it all and gave me your most thorough opinion and advice.

So I'm a freshman in college at a big university. During the second month of school I went to a club and ran into this guy who I had never met before. He's a senior in a fraternity. We talked and danced and he even bought me a couple drinks (he did not roofie me by the way lol). I ended up going home with him and we talked a little bit more and drank a beer on the porch together. We eventually went up to his room and had sex (my first one night stand ever). I woke up the next morning and just sneaked my way out of there while he was still sleeping haha. A week or so went by and I got a friend request on facebook from him, I accepted it. I remember trying to look for him on twitter to see if he tweeted anything the night we met. One of his tweets was about me and said "who was this mysterious beautiful freshman from last night?". I just laughed and thought it was funny/cute/whatever. That weekend I was out with my girls at some bar. I got a text from him and he wanted to know what I was up to. It was still early in the night so I knew he wasn't just trying to "get some". It was also a bar he said he hadn't been to since his freshman year in college because it was "lame". But he still showed up to come see me. He was acting like a little bit of douche bag when he showed up, probably because he was with one of his friends too. He was never rude to be but it was almost like he had a high ego (typical frat boy I guess). I ended up leaving with my girls and went to a different club and had a good time. Weeks went by and I always found myself getting texts from him to come back home with him later at night. We would hook up on the weekends once in a while, I never thought anything of it, was just having fun. One night he texted me and wanted to hang out when I was already out. The bar he was at was right up the street from the club I was at, so he walked and came to meet me outside. We walked back to his house and actually had a fun time during it. We were cracking jokes and just playing around. We were even holding hands. We of course had sex when we got back and when we were done we talked a little. He kept saying things like "stop you're being so cute". I knew he wasn't just saying this as a form of flattery either, because I actually was being pretty damn cute LOL. Also I could just tell by the way he was saying it. After he said the final "you're cute" phrase, he goes, "what are you doing this coming Thursday? would you want to go to a date party with me?". I said yes. A date party is when an entire frat asks a girl to their pregame and they all go to a club together. It's definitely a good thing when a guy asks you to one. I showed up to the date party and we were having a good time, until I blacked out of course. I didn't make it to the date party, he actually had to put me to bed lol. But the next morning we just laughed about it. He would text me everyday just to talk and see how I was (which he never did), we started cuddling after sex and into the morning, he would like every single one of my tweets and instagram pictures, he invited me out with his friends, and he even invited me over so he could cook for me (which actually turned out as a dinner with all of his friends too but whatever, still nice). We kept hanging out regularly and it was pretty obvious that he liked me. One night I was way too drunk and told him that I liked him and didn't want to get hurt, I prob said some other things too about him not answering me some nights because I thought he was with another girl. I basically sounded psycho haha. After that he started to distance himself and wasn't as cute, he wouldn't even answer my texts sometime. My problem is, I still really like him. I'm trying to get him to want me back but I don't know how. There must be something I can do. There is this huge concert that I'm going to next weekend with all of my friends from school and he's going to, he even blew up my phone about having me go back to his place after the concert. I don't know what this guys deal is, I want him to like me again. If you were in this guy's shoes, what would have you fall head over heals for me again? Also from a male's point of view, to your knowledge, do you think he really liked me? Why did he stop liking me? HELP!

[Clark]

He stopped liking you because he found someone else. He likes her more. Feelings disappear if someone better comes along.