My girlfriend loves me, but liked another guy behind my back & lied?

[Johnny]

Im 17 & my girl is 15, we've been dating for about 4 going on 5 months we've had a great relationship& all our problems started when i got mad because i wasn't her first in bed, then she told me awhile later that she was raped& i felt sooo bad & then we fix things& were dating& she's always like im so glad you were my first & this & that & it actually made me feel good inside & then she forgot to log out her twitter on my phone & i know i shouldn't of but i went through her messages & she was talking nasty to.some dude & it really hurt me, immediately i was mad because i was here thinking i thought she was innocent & nice & then i was like i doubt i was even her first & then i confronted her about it & she was like we never did anything, he just wanted to use me, i was just talking like that to hurt him because i got hurt in my previous relationship & i was just messing with his feelings but something told me there was more & i was like have you ever done anything nasty with anyone & she says no & i got her to eventually admit that her ex rubbed her pussy & then we were good for a day but i still believed there was more & then she admitted that he fingered her & i was even more pissed, but i eventually got over it & even after she had already lied a few times, but i still thought there was more & she would deny it again, eventually she admitted to having a quickie with him& they did have sex, but she didn't like because she didn't get wet & how i put it down way better than him & i was hurt but like i said eventually got over it even after she lied several times already& then our relationship is strong & were doing good& then i get into her fb & i go through her inbox& i see messages between her & other guys& shes calling them cute asking for hugs& also one guy said he really liked her& she said i kinda like you to /.\ then she was like i really like you but i have a bf& she told him we could of been dating but noo & that guy she talked nasty before she has seen him

[Hey]

I think you should dump her purely for lieing. I wouldn't trust her man.

[Micheal Martinez]

Dude honestly leave her! She's just being a hoe you deserve Wayy better than that!

[Kasey D]

Well it sounds like to me that you are getting played....first off its not a good sign that she kept lying to you...she said she didnt do anything then thru many more waited lies she finally tells you that she did have a quickie with him....Honestly I know you have feelings for her but you have to stop and think about yourself...is this what you really want ? to always wonder what your girlfriend is doing? A relationship is nothing without trust and commitment and i dont think shes willing to give either of those to you right now....clearly by her flirting non stop with these guys and lying to you repeatedly......you are young...things like this happen but if you want my honest opinion i would break up with her....even if you still want to be with her...break up with her....and see how she responds to it....if see says that she will change and do better then give her another chance and if she is okay with it then let her go ! Either way it will show you exactly what her intentions are and how she truly cares about you and making the relationship work or not....Hope i helped !


-Kasey

[Darius]

Johnny... I completely understand what you're going through. My gf she lies about one thing then admits the truth later. Luckly its been small such as admittting she does think some guys are attractive when she tells me she doesn't think that way.

eventually shes going to knock herself off the trust ladder and frankly...I think you should leave her. She lied to you about stuff you really hold dear between you two. And she keeps lying as well. And flirting with guys. Sooner or later she will do something with a guy behind your back. The fact she likes a guy is enough to make a guy pursue her and make her cheat!

It's bound to happen. I feel that it is while others may think not or say you're wrong to go through her stuff. It is wrong but in the end it paid off for you but don't keep invading her privacy. She obviously wants to be alone to have fun again. Save yourself a broken heart and leave and tell her why though. Dont just up and leave her bro

edit: also you can't get mad at her for things she has done in the past. She wasn't with you at the time so what she has done is hmher own business.

[Nell]

Look here man, you loving a hoe right now, every other girl I've dated pulls that "I was raped" shit, but be the biggest freaks in bed which to me is ironic, I think it's time you explore your options and open up the relationship, both of you are too young for commitment, you have the evidence. It's time to do you bruh because if it's not obvious to you by now, she's gonna do her an lie to you as long as she can, that's not love trust me neither of you know what love is. Lol I feel so old now but I'm like 3 years older. You'll learn, trust me, she's not the one. You'll have to cold turkey that hoe, straight drop her delete her number, it'll hurt for a little yes, but prolonging the inevitable will just make it hurt so much more. Mingle.