Scorpio man says he no longer wants to be in a relationship.?

[Black Cat]

I'm so confused. So I was dating this Scorpio guy for about 6 months. He came on full force, barely let me breathe. Loving, open...needed to know my wherebouts at all times...and when he lost his temper? Whoa Nelly! No holds barred! After one major fight, I showed him the door. I cut off all contact, after the this incident he was showing serious regrets for his actions and trying to get me to forgive him (I was deeply hurt by his stinging comments). He kept saying he loved me and couldn't stand to lose me, that I was worth it. I ignored his mutiple texts, phonecalls messages for two weeks! And then finally agreed to meet up and discuss the matter. After our meeting, I decided it was best to give eachother space and time. He was having none of this...he continued to pursue like a mad man. We continued to see each other, but when I tried to discuss our relationship, he said he no longer wanted to be my boyfriend. I accepted his decision, as I was unsure as well.

After all these ups and downs, I have accepted that it is not meant to be. Though he still contacts me daily, wants to see me all the time. My question is, why does he still presist on being part of my life if he no longer wants to be with me? Why does he keep coming back over and over if he has decided I am not the girl for him? Is his a game?
@ Dimple - Oh he already dumped me after winning me back. "Whatever" was my response, as I wasn't sure if this was going to work anyway. But even after the initial "not sure I want a relationship anymore..." bs, he contacted me the next day, asking me to go for dinner as "friends"! Last night, he asked me to come over and watch a movie! Bottom line, he hasn't gone away. I'm sure it's a ego game.

[Kay]

Omg I have to know this too ! I dated my Scorpio for 7/8 months & he tells me he has a woman but he's out clubbing every weekend & he even just made a new account of a social network saying he "wants a relationship" & says he can't hang out with me but still he wants me in his life & says we're cool ... These people are soo confusing their the master at games he's played soo many games... With my head ... Maybe he just trying to figure you out .. Sometimes they say things to get a reaction out of us ... Maybe he wants you to think he not into as much anymore ... When you left he was really hurt .. & he never expected you to just walk away .. Scorpio need security he needs to know the person he wants isn't going to go anywhere they love totally control .. He became vulnerable when he had to beg for your forgiveness he feels weak now so it made him feel better to tell you he's not intrested in him anymore . He wants you to beg like you made him haha they play soo much... Stay how you are

[Dimple]

Well you are dating a true Scorpio . Enjoy.. .

they can get clingy and love playing mind games.. he's waiting for you to break down and take him back so he can dump you.

[Nikki]

They are just controlling mental cases, this is just another way to get revenge! Or he possibly likes you abd regrets hurting you! It is possible! If your gemini your probably driving him insane with ya coolness

[Bubbles]

Yes it's a game. If he can't control you like he wants (you have the upper hand in the relationship since he screwed up) he'll take the power away from you by taking away the relationship. It's a way to manipulate you. Cut off all contact from him. He'll freak out and be seething angry, but he'll move on and leave you alone eventually if you continue to ignore him. Especially if you find another man. He doesn't take rejection well. He takes loss of control/power even worse. He's trying to one up you. He feels helpless if a woman controls him and it shatters his pride/ego. If I were you I'd block him from social media or change your phone number also. Scorpio men are known to stalk, and check up on girls...especially the ones who reject them. He's looking for a worm hole so he can weasel his way back into your life. He'll call you from private numbers if you don't answer his phone calls, pass out your number to friends and say you are easy just to be a jerk. He'll stalk you on social media, and probably drive by your house and slow down here and there, if not creep outside of it.

One Scorpio I was ignoring (we never met mind you, we were talking online) somehow found my address (I never gave him my address!) and he waited outside of ...what he thought was my house...for several hours to see if I would come out (to test me i guess idk). The neighbor walked out and told him to get out of there and that he was at the wrong house. So he came back a few days later, found the right house, and started harassing my neighbors trying to figure out it was me. I didn't even know this guy. After we met, I decided he had some issues anyways. He even thought it was romantic in a sort of heroic way....I was like, "did it ever cross your mind that you're a total creep. scary stalker?" and he was upset and said I was being immature. lol. I don't think so since I told him to buzz off, and he researched me, then showed up out of the blue, and was waiting forever, in the 90 degree heat all day. wtf.

So just be careful, since this guy is clearly aggressive. If it's your first argument and he became brutal, that's nothing. Scorpio men conceal who they are, and their emotions can explode. So if he showed you that, that's only the tip of the iceberg. That is scary. Just take caution!

Not all Scorpios are like this, they aren't all bad. Those are just the immature ones who can't handle their sh**. Ditch this one and get a real Scorp. Best of Luck!