Should I take my ex back?

[Maddie]

We broke up in December. It was a lot of pain for us both to bear. Then he started dating this girl he used to make fun of. We didn't end on good terms, at all. Well recently we began talking on twitter where everyone could read them. Even his gf. Then he DM me and told me he still loved me and that he was sorry. Then he gave me his number and we talked. He admitted he cheated on me. He didn't do anything with the girl but flirt with her. I'm not really sure if I consider that cheating. But he does. A couple days ago he asked what I would say if he asked to be my boyfriend again. He also tells me he misses me and loves me. He has a girlfriend though. So that would be kind of cheating too, right? I know I really don't want to be with him cause he does cheat, but not extreme, like sex. I'm just curious. I'm wondering what everyone else thinks.

[Chika]

No. just move on, you can try to be friends, but nothing else. If you take him back he will do it again.

[Swtz]

take some time out and think with clear mind. Already you had a heartache...i dont think you would want to go through that again. Use your best judgement to decide whethe rthis guy really wants a serious relationship with you or not. Dont keep punishing yourself .

[lisa]

I'd move on, he sounds like he's not capable of a commitment. If he says he cheated, he did more then just talk and kiss, he's trying to down play it. Take your time, if he's in love with you he will go to great lengths to win you back, then you will know for sure if he capable of commitment.

Good luck

[Allison]

A cheater is a cheater is a cheater. He cheated on you, and now he's cheating on his current girlfriend. (how do you know for sure sex wasn't part of his cheating?) If you get back together NOTHING will change. Why would you want to go back to that? Clearly he is not giving his full attention to any one, so politely end it with him, and find a guy that will honor and respect his relationship with you. Don't you deserve that?

[MaxKen75]

Dear first of all I apologize to you for my English, i'm not American, were i come from we said to count to ten when you are angry, because things can become irreversible, a advice I can give you is to not give up but to continue to woo her. Send him text messages, flowers, invite her to dinner and tell him that you regret, give her a present like a ring, woo her like the first time .... make her the serenades under her balcony .... in other words.