I'm scared that my dad will hit me?!?

[Alexandra]

Okay well today has been a really busy day. My mum found out that my dad has been cheating on her for 6 months now and they're fighting now. My dad blocked all of us on facebook so that we wont be nosey on his timeline when a few minutes ago or so, a message from my dad comes and it said that "cris" (the girl who dad has been having an affair with) is asking me to tell my dad to call her because she's 'worried' but i refused and showed it to my mum. Now she's angry and upset. She told me swear to her and say whatever my heart says. So i did then my dad calls my mum and asks why am i saying stuff like that. So yeah it's basically like that. Now im scared because what if he comes home and abuses me and my mum?! My mum says to call him and express my feelings but i refuse. Then she says "do u not care for me" im sad she thinks i don't care about her now what can i do?! PLEASE HELP I JUST WANT EVERYTHING TO BE HAPPY AND THE WAY IT WAS BEFORE!! ( im 13 btw

[Deondra]

She should get a divorce from him. If he's still living with you and your mom, he's probably still cheating. Do you think your mom likes that?

[Jasmine]

I feel you, I have problems with my dad aswell, I hate him from my soul after I found out what he uset to do to my mum.

If your dad comes phone the police as fast as possible, check through the letter box, or that glass circle thing (spy hole or whatever it is) on the door if some one comes to your house to make sure you know who it is, or don't even open the door to him.

half of this doesn't make sence but I hope you get what I'm trying to say... Hope this helped

[Ilas]

I know that you are involved in your parent's lives, but they seriously shouldn't let you fight the battle for them, it so wrong.

[Pegah]

i think you should not anwser your dad or mom bc things will get worser and when ur mom asks u to do something just go to ur room or when ur dad calls dont anwser or dont text him either k.

[Brandon]

She needs to get a divorce from him. He obviously does not care about your mom or even you for that matter if he can't stay faithful to his wife AT LEAST (Yes, I know they should be faithful all the time) until you are an adult and out the house. He ruined the ENTIRE dynamic. If you really are scared then you need to tell your mom! Maybe him coming back to that house for any other reason than gathering his stuff isn't a good idea! Things probably won't be the same and maybe you need to start preparing yourself for that reality.. sorry

[P.]

If your dad hasn't hit you in the past, it is not likely that he will hit you now. What I do advise is to stay out of your parents conflict. This is between them. Keep your head down and out of the way. They both are going to be on edge and need to work this out on their own. Don't get in between them or take sides. This is an adult situation that you should stay out of.

[Nina]

Your mom right now is exploding and she may say anything, but try not to get in this problem, is their problem,,,I know they are your parents, but you dont have any business about their relationship,,,Im not saying to defend your father, Im saying not to judge any of them...just be there to consolation to your mother and make her feel strong....

[Nguyen]

Your parents should not be involving you in their fights. If your dad comes and is scaring you, call the police.