Girls, I am seriously lost, need advice, help?(i'll answer yours)?

[Awesome guy!]

Okay so I am 15 and kinda shy(well around my crush, iffy around others) My crush and I are very compatible, like VERY(at least that's what I got from when we last talked). She's beautiful, intelligent, artistic, EXTREMELY nice(she makes me look like a jerk, and i'm the nicest guy alive, haha), and she's outgoing(I want to date an outgoing girl who can get me out of my shell more, opposites kind of do attract I guess...) My crush and I talked to eachother last like 3 months ago. She flirted with me a lot when we met, but she prob lost interest since we haven't talked in forever. The only reason we initially talked to eachother is because she asked me to sit with her in the open seat next to her. To my luck, the seats were changed and I couldn't be next to her anymore.... Ever since that I haven't had a chance to talk to her 1 on 1 because she is always with at least 1 friend and it makes it hard to approach her because of my shyness and it is pretty hard for anyone to approach a group of girls they barely know(besides the fonz that is..... Aaaay! Haha!) I asked people irl, no one knows, they just say wait for her to be alone, but she is never alone(at least when i'm there she isn't) I cannot contact her on FB or any of that for two reasons, one, idk her last name(I know none of my friend's last names, it rarely comes up) and two, I don't get into that stuff, its overrated. I know some of her friends, but they aren't her BEST friends, just common, pass by What's up kind of friends, haha.... Her best friends spend their time around her all the time! I need to talk to her by the end of this week, I feel like if I can get to know her well by V-Day, I can ask her out before some other dude does(and i'm sure some guy will, she's a great girl) I barely see her, I only see her at breakfast, lunch, and geometry. Anyways, i'm lost and need some serious advice! Thank you for reading this WHOLE thing, I know it's long and scary(haha, at least scary to me, cause I hate reading) I promise I will answer yours with as best of an answer as possible ASAP! Just supply the link.... Thanks!

[Emily]

Honestly, just tell her how you feel. Just end up talking to her after class and ask for her number. Or give her a compliment then she'll think about you. good luck.
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[Jordan]

The good news is, you've definitely got a chance! Even if she has sort of lost interest in you, she liked you at one point; she was flirting with you and wanted to sit near you, and every girl likes a guy who's brave enough to come up and talk to her (provided he's not pushy). If she had interest once and isn't in a relationship, you've definitely got a chance =)

I'm by no means an expert in social situations, but if you've talked to her some before, I'd say message her over facebook or twitter and say something along the lines of "Hey, I haven't talked to you forever, how've you been?" And after that (or maybe just ) crash her breakfast/ lunch table or something. If possible, bring one of your mutuals.

Or, if you can muster up the courage (trust me, I know it's hard) just walk straight up to her in a lull in conversation and say hi. Drive by comments are good too; you said she was in your geometry class- maybe if you walk up to hand a paper in or something just say something to her as you walk by. Even if you don't try to start a conversation then, it gets her used to talking to you again. Just say something like "I really hope the teacher's just checking the homework for completion" or if she's reading or something ask her what it is. Just little things. It seems like nothing, but trust me, it'll make it much less awkward later. I've made a bunch of friends via them drive-by-commenting at me.

Good luck!


I don't expect you to answer since it's kind of long, but if you wouldn't mind taking a look at my question and seeing if you had any advice that would be awesome =)
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Thanks, and good luck again!

[DKing]

Hey man, I know what you're going through is hell, I've had to go through it myself; I've gotten and given some real shitty advice on this subject, but right now I feel I have a sort of understanding of how it works so I'll try and tell you.

Have you ever heard the song graduation (friends forever)? It's towards the end of 21 jump street, and while its a corny song it pretty much outlines what high school love is like. (or at least for people like you and me) You start liking someone and as you slowly mature and your feelings grow, you eventually talk yourself out of liking them, or you get your heart broken. As this happens again and again, you finally begin to see what it is that you want out of life and your relationships and from this you can go after your goals.

My advice to you? Go for it. No, I'm not saying go ask her out, my theory isn't to commit relationshipcide, I'm telling you to put effort into your relationship. You don't seem like the guy who can make a really great first impression and then ask a girl out after a couple of times talking, which is like me; we have to take it slower, which is sometimes more fun, and basically means you gotta grow some balls and be social with her and her friends for a little bit. I know this sounds rough, but its the way you have to play it.

Fact is, you probably won't end up marrying this girl, so use this as an opportunity to practice and hone your flirting skills so that you can ask her out, or when you like another girl, you have an easier time of it.

[Sky]

Your adorable!!! Personally you seem like your not all that shy, that being said! Why don't you just tell one of your friends your interested in her...Or if your truly that shy say "Hey guys, what's that girls full name in geometry, I was just wondering because I think she might be related to someone I know" Or you could just approach her and say "hey, so sorry to bug you at lunch but did you finish today's homework, if so would you mind if I check my answers, with yours,I think I'm missing a step." If she hands you her paper then say thanks,when you get it look for her name and what do you know her last name should be on it to hand it back to her and say thanks___ (her name),you have nice hand writing, I owe u 1!
You just need to treat approaching her as no big deal,tell yourself that your just asking a question. After a couple of days find her on Facebook and add her as a friend. She'll most likely accepts your friend request. Then there you go! A way to build a relationship!