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Fallen in love with someone who I may never see again.?
03-24-2014, 11:47 AM
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Fallen in love with someone who I may never see again.?
I'm 18, male, and I'm bisexual. I use this app called grindr on my phone to meet local guys, and I met up with a guy who was back for Christmas from Canada. We'd previously spoken back in November and he texted me back again when he arrived back to England mid december. We texted a lot up until we met. He knew where I worked and so came in and saw me working just after Christmas in the sales at my work place. We couldn't talk at the time but he texted me straight after asking me to meet with him the next day. He picked me up the next day after work and we drove off into the countryside and sat in his car talking for a while which led to a bit more. He understood me and was saying he'd like to meet up again but when he dropped me off home, said that he hoped everything would work out for me as we probably wouldn't see each other again since he had to go back to Canada a few days later.
I've never fallen for anyone so hard and I feel like I'm obsessing over him and constantly looking at his Facebook etc. We've texted a couple of times since and he said he really enjoyed seeing me and that maybe our paths would cross again sometime soon. He hasn't replied to the last text I sent though so feeling really down.
I know this isn't really a question and to a lot of people this story probably seems kind of weird but I was just hoping to talk about it and get some good advice from anyone.
Thanks

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03-24-2014, 11:53 AM
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Grindr is an app mainly used for finding NSA sex. You should move on from him.

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03-24-2014, 11:55 AM
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you might be at this stage i refer to as "obsessive crushing" been there. done that. you might be at this point wherein you think he's the ultimate happiness you need but then basing from my experience, loss of contact and distance or friends and other "hot guys" i met made me move on quite fast from that guy.

get to know a person longer than that period which i call "got to know kinda comme ci comme ca" stage and you'll really know if you still are attractive/in love with him. time will tell
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03-24-2014, 12:01 PM
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At times over my life I've met guys that I thought I was madly in love with--only to realize, as we spent time together, that I didn't even want to date the guy any more after a few dates together. The initial glow for you was strong but it probably won't last. No need to shut him out, but get out there and start meeting other people. You might meet someone you like better anyway.
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03-24-2014, 12:06 PM
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I knooooow! I once had quickie sex in the toilet of a plane on a night flight. I''ve been trying since then to find someone who'll do it on a night flight with me, but the only one I found wants to do it to the music of the Beatles and I can't stand that, being more into soul myself.
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03-24-2014, 12:15 PM
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Hi James I know what you mean I met someone local and might not see him again . Most websites are one night stands . I been there at your age now I&#x27;m 54 and understand more now than thirty years ago. You have to let go move on . My experience he will come looking for you if it&#x27;s meant to be. Go on with your daily life and when you least exspect it he&#x27;s texting you. Happy new year.
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