Should I confront my friend about her rudeness towards my NYE plans or just not give her the reaction?

[broooke]

Tomorrow night I'm hosting NYE drinks at mine before a group of friends and myself go into town clubbing. One of my friends is openly slagging off NYE on facebook and complaining she feels pressured to go out.. I think it's really rude considering I'm the only one who has bothered to organise anything but also know she is only doing it to get my attention. Every month or so she goes otu of her way to provoke a reaction out of me.
Shall I ignore it, not give her the reaction and have a great NYE regardless of her miserable attitude towards life in general? Or confront her about her rude behaviour?!

[Suzy Q]

I'd send her a private message (in order to give it the least amount of attention), and tell her it's no big deal if she doesn't show up. Tell her the party will go on, and she can do her own thing. Tell her it won't hurt your feelings one bit and that you just want her to have fun in her own way. That way, you're not only taking the high road, but you're also letting her know that her attention seeking ways won't win her a pity party or aggravate you in any way.

[fgsearchn]

Why do you assume? Maybe she really does not want to go out with you. Could this be a possibility? Why does everything have to be about you and YOUR PLANS? Can she not have a life of her own, and her own desires and preferences? Why can't you be considering how she really feels and allow her to be with you in environments she is comfortable and let her off the hook when she feels to be left alone?

[That Curious Bi]

flub her. just have ur party and forget about her