Im suffering from a terrible heartache over this guy?

[Laura]

Ok to start of with, im 19 going on 20 and ive never been inlove. well i have loved three guys in my whole life. but life never let me have them even though im sure all three of them felt something for me at the time i liked them. the thing is, the third guy has really got to me soo badly. i met him at uni and he had a girlfriend. however, he would message me very late and night and be kinda chatty/flirty...not sure if he was purposely trying to pull me in or was just being friendly. but i started to get pulled in and i really started to like him. then he broke up with his girlfriend...but apparently it was because he was horrible to her...or so he said himself on a public blog where he stated he didnt want to break up with her and she was the love of his life...howeer she moved on... ive liked him for months now and i havent seen him or heard from him but i cant stop checking his twitter and facebook which makes it impossible to forget him. i really thought he was the one. i built it up so much in my head because we have a lot in common and i could see us together. im used to having the thought of him in my head...dont think theres been a day gone by that i havent thought of him. so trying to move on is sooooo difficult. its killing me. emtionally mentally and physically. i feel so sick because i found out he doesnt go to uni anymore so i wont see him and hes going away abroad for a long time. ive never felt like this before...ive never felt this obsessive..the other two guys i liked didnt cause me this much sickness. not sure if its because ive had enough of never getting to be with the person i love. it was sad that i had to move on from them but i feel like this is destorying me even though ive known him a lot less time than the others....
i feel like im going crazy and i dont know what to do. please please help me

[Idkkk]

There's not much you can really do right now, sorry to tell you. The only thing you can really do is give him some space. Don't remind yourself about him, don't look at his social media pages and try to forget about him. If you two are meant to be together, you will be, trust me, but right now just try to find a hobby that distracts you from thinking about him, like art or sports etc. Just remember that if you two aren't meant to be, you'll find someone better than him that you'll love even more. Keep your head up and stay positive! (:

[Iratepot082]

This isn't mental health really but you should see someone for counseling.