How to forget someone..Pls seriously?

[Sonu]

I've no contact with him for 8yrs..We r childhood frnds at very small age. Their is no other relationship. After schooling i saw him in his sister function. We r relatives. At the age 15 i saw him just for a minute. Now iam 23 completed PG. In the middle 8 yrs.. I haven't met him..I didn't saw him..there is no contacts between us..and i don't like him..


But now i saw him in fb. I messaged him even though i don't like it..he didn't reply. But these 8yrs. I tried to forget him but i can't.. I think he misunderstood me or what ever..I don't want to think about him. I must forget him..how?

[Veena]

I wish I knew the answer for that, myself.... In your situation... I wud say, not to pent up your feelings anymore. Have the courage to tell him how you feel... Just talk....

[tallsack868]

I am going to bounce right away from your main question that actually will give the answer to why you can't forget him.

You are seriously out to convince YOURSELF that you don't like him, but there is an old adage that the one who shouts the most, is the one who goes forth and does what they shout about!!! Thee doth protest too much my lady - or something like that!

For a guy you do not like, you are doing an awful lot of thinking, so there is a war going on inside you and that is: for some reason, only known to yourself, you are deeply attracted to him; almost perhaps, in love with him - but there is a wall that is stopping you from admitting it and until you face the truth about things, you will keep on thinking and thinking until it drives you mad.

It is like his is your "achllies" heel; your forbidden pleasure and as yet, you have not hinted at all why you feel such a dislike, but such an intense like at the same time?

Also curious to why he is "snubbing" you if that is what he is doing; could it be at all that he just has not read his messages or you saw that he had?

Our hearts tend to be pretty nasty to us, sweetie and we can find ourselves in some tricky situations but I feel that once you admit the truth to yourself, you can work on erasing him from your memory or at least, not letting him effect you so much. It can be done, because I did this with my ex. We fell deeply in love but it was too soon for us and then I met my husband, but memories were way too fresh and it was the night I stopped dreaming about him, that I started to heal and now he is just a pleasant memory

[Amandeep]

You need to focus your brain (thinking/Thoughts) in your hobbies. This way you turn your focus to Ur hobby from him. Make busy U, in Ur hobby for 1 or 2 weeks.

if 1st method does not works the try 2nd
second way is differ but works

You order to your brain, to forget him at any rate. repeat this again and again daily for 2-3 weeks.

[Sanna]

Why should you forget him !!!
he is your childhood friend so it is not bad to remember him, NEVER MIX UP THIS FEELING WITH LOVE
if you felt the same about a girl, did you think that ? people just do this mistake to think & AFTER this it make people fall in love!
Now he is only your good friend in your mind & your nature is to remember old good memories! (can be very few, not all)
so you send him fb message but he didn't reply, I think he didn't check it! actually sometimes message from unknown people gather into 'other' folder, which usually people forget to check.
you should find other ways to contact him on fb
1. find you if he have any page then comment on any post or directly write on that page's timeline.
2. contacts his fb friends, if his friend is not available for public them find out any public post on his timeline or profile pics & check which people liked
3. you can write your nick name & your any info to let him know who are you in your profile info(public) for few hours & send him directly friend request, if you have your own profile pic then that'll be best for this
4. he can be a member of your school fb group
etc.
Good Luck

[Sakshi]

1. Cut off contact. You cannot forget someone if you still see him or her all the time, or constantly hear about his or her activities.

2. Remove all reminders of this person. Purge your life of anything that brings up painful memories of this person. Not looking at these things every day will help you move on.

3. Stop thinking about him.

4. If you're still having trouble, set aside time to express your feelings. If you have tried everything and still cannot resist thinking about him or her, try a new approach.

5. Find a healthy distraction. Keep yourself on the right track by replacing the time you would have spent with this person (or would have spent thinking about him or her) with a new activity. Take up a hobby you have always wanted to try, join an intramural sports league, or start a new form of exercise.