How do i get over my best friends boyfriend.?

[Robyn]

I started having a crush on this boy who hung around our group alot but i didn't tell anyone about it and my friend hen asked him out and i was gutted, i haven't told her because it would ruin our friendship. But its not just me linking him thats the problem he flirts with me too, he asked if i wanted a kiss right infront of my best friends face and on facebook he keeps putting up pictures of clowns knowing that i hate them, he said he'll only stop if i hug him the next time i see him, What do i do?

[Ozzie]

Tell your best friend about it. If not it will cause more problems in the future.

[Jules.]

You want to have him, and your best friend don't you?

It's either one, or the other.

You're an innocent part in this scenario, granted. But are you willing to come to a decision when the time comes?

They will probably not last very long, may be. Keep that in mind.
I'm sure that if they don't survive, you'll be drawn to him and begin to flirt, secretly.

Unfortunately, right now.. You can't help your feelings.
Everyone should be accepting of that. That is very hard to control, and most of the time, you cannot.

What you should have learned so far is that you should speak up when you have the chance, or lose the opportunity.

What should you do?
Tell your best friend. Four uneasy words, I know.

If you want to keep her, tell her.
Don't pull the 'I saw him first' care, though. You'll never get away with it. What you can do is just tell her that you needed to be honest, because that is the only thing you could do here. If she doesn't understand and starts to lash out, walk away. Don't look back!

She may ban you from her, but then possibly ask for you back. Accept it, or deny it.

I can tell you that ignoring your feelings for someone only makes it grow stronger.

After you tell your best friend, Robyn, you should wait a little to see how it pans out afterwards.
If she told him, if she hates you completely, etc.

It's not fair that you don't get a chance, because he is flirting with you.

I'm probably sure that you are the better option to be with. In scenarios like this, the ending is always worse for the best friend who fell for the boyfriend.

You'll be honest, you won't lie. It'll be helpless, innocent, yet shameful flirting amongst you two. Then, you'll both fall for each other, but keep it a secret. Your best friend will find out, cut you off and set him loose, MAYBE.

It won't be easy to come out with both on your side.

I.. I don't want you to let her just have him. Please, don't ignore your feelings for him just for the sake of your friend. I know I may be suggesting a cold scene to play out, but I just feel you deserve it, somehow.

Confess it to your best friend, apologize sincerely, and see how she feels.

Don't wait.. I change that one. Tell him afterwards, whether she approves or not.

It's a scene of 'Something Borrowed', which was originally a book that turned into a TERRIBLE movie.

I know you can have one of them at least, but I hope you attempt the guy..

I don't know you, no.
But I've heard of your situation, and it's not fair to me.

Conclusion:

Try to get the guy, but your best friend to understand.

Hate me, or love my idea.

I hope you'll think of yourself on this one.