Disappointed in a few guys?

[Stacey]

So on the internet I've been chatting with a few guys who's about 8 years older. They were funny and I loved talking to them but then they gave me their twitter and Facebook (no worries I'm not trying to get TOO close so I never added them or gave deep personal info) and I just went to look. They always made horny jokes but I thought it was just a joke but then based in their profile I can tell they are the type of people who spend their nights in strip clubs and watching porn and just trying to get laid by anyone.. I usually don't like these type of people wether as a friend or anything else...I'm just I don't know disappointed because I thought they were different, I thought that maybe I actually found a few cool people (they even live nearby) but they're not who I I thought the were..:/ hmm not really sure what the question is but I just wanted to type it out and see if you guys have any advice or thoughts. No BS please.
Also I feel like if me and them were to ever be closer I feel they would judge by how sexy I looked

[Akul]

dont do it

[Lovelygal]

Well here are my 2 cents on this. It sounds that you're struggling between staying true to yourself and settling for less than you deserve. They're not worth the time or energy. They have meaningless lives where they just bang girls..are you ready to be #24? Those type of guys use girls sexually and have almost nothing to offer them..they're broken men who don't even know or fully understand what it takes to be a man. They're the ones that will give you daily hell--drama, cheating, addictions, etc. Are you that type of a girl? From reading your post it sounds like you're looking for decent men and have come across indecent guys and since it seems like there's no one better in the area that you're considering them as potentials but yet can't quite settle for so little either. I've been in that situation of online dating myself and I cam to the conclusion of ditching those dating sites because I can do better things with my time. For example, like learning a new hobby, reading, cooking, exercising, and going out with friends and meeting people that way instead. I used to look for Christian guys and went on sites like that...but it seemed like a complete waste of time and there wasn't someone of my type. I did that for a few years before I said...heck with it! So, last month I gave it a shot again and went on a date with a really decent guy, but finding out that I'm not ready to settle for a serious relationship so I had to let him go and I'm done with dating currently. I'm not ready and I'm glad I stopped and got rid of my profile. I don't believe one has to look for love...love will come to you unexpectedly..don't sit there and search for it. Live your life!

[Zgasz]

I know how that feels. you think you meet cool guys that are different and you end up getting disappointed. Just stick to your standards and your beliefs and if they don't reach your standard, then just let it go. stop thinking about them or over analyzing situations because they are not worth your time. spend that time on yourself and have fun!!