Am I being a crazy girlfriend or should I talk to him about this?

[M]

I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, and we're both 23 years old. I trust him, and we're very open about our feelings in our relationship. That said, I've had some concerns. I know he hangs out with one of his ex-gfs, but he agreed to let me know whenever he hangs out with her. Likewise, he also makes the effort to tell me where here is and who he's with. He's also given me the privilege to go through his phone IF I ever feel I need to. When we hung out, I noticed he would flip his phone over and talked to him about this to which he said that when he's with me he doesn't want to acknowledge anything on his phone (unless totally necessary) and that's why he does that.

He's leaving for a one month trip tomorrow, and so he came to hang out with me for about 4 hours despite his busy schedule. During this time, we ended up using my laptop as he had to print something. To print that thing he needed to go on facebook and into his messages, at first he quickly went to his inbox and I wasn't really looking - as I understand the need for privacy. He then hand to go into his inbox again, but this time I WAS looking, and he made sure he retrieved what he needed to in a way that all his messages in his inbox weren't visible to me this time. I know this might be a minor issue, and I might be totally overthinking it, but it's bugging me. He's also leaving for his trip tomorrow so I don't think it's the right time to discuss all this - but it will ANNOY me for an entire month while he's gone. Should I let it go?

[kinghielo]

Yes let it go, or its going to eat you alive and not worth the trouble, trust me.

[Lucinta]

I'd talk to him;
something doesn't seem right.
You're not acting crazy, at all.

[Steenie]

Just ask him.

You can't have a relationship without trust.

[obedientactivity190]

First off, don't ever think your a crazy girlfriend. You are seeing some red flags and you have a right to confront him about this. It may be nothing, but its better to talk to him and see how he reacts and for your peace of mind. Especially because he is leaving for a month, I would strongly recommend talking to him about it before he leaves. Otherwise it will eat away at you.

When I first started dating my husband he had saved my name under 'My beautiful Sarah' and at one point when he went to text me and I was there (I don't remember why lol) I saw in his M's 'My beautiful Ri' and he quickly changed the screen. I was really confused and concerned, especially because things were going so well, and he seemed so sincere. Also my ex had cheated on me too. So I had a lot of red flags.

I asked him about it and he had mentioned she was a friend he was close with, not anymore and he had already changed it. But the point is, he wasn't offended I asked and explained to me what had happened (we had only been dating for a couple weeks at that time, so I can completely understand how that could be overlooked) and he hasn't given me any reason to worry since then.

So either asking him will give you peace of mind or asking him might give you a hint that maybe he isn't being loyal and that you should cut ties.