Is it wrong for my boyfriend to keep old flames as facebook "friends"?

[lisame]

My boyfriend of the past few months has several girl facebook friends. I admit that because of a previous cheating husband I have insecurities but I also shared this with my boyfriend when we went out just a few times. I don't consider myself to be demanding or crazy jealous or anything but he has one girl in particular that had really racy photos of herself in a string bikini, like a thong back with her whole butt showing. I mentioned this to him the other day and asked him who she was. He said she was someone he used to date and that she was a top model. I feel really upset about all of it and feel its just wrong to keep a fb friendship going with a girl like that if he wants to have an "exclusive" relationship with me. Am i wrong?? I just don't understand this easy going anything goes attitude he seems to have unless he just doesn't want me. But he says he loves me and seems to do things that support it, i just don't get it.

[Ed Smith]

He's being honest with you. If he wanted to cheat on you, he could just as easily have told you she was a former boss or fellow employee or something. But no, he told you up front that she was an ex-girlfriend. I don't see an issue with it personally. Most of my Facebook friends are girls and I would never cheat on a girlfriend with any of them, even my exes (and yes, I still have many of them as friends). Take him at his word. From the sound of it he has no intention of cheating on you and isn't interested in his ex. Having a few ex-girlfriends on Facebook doesn't mean he isn't interested in a relationship with you.