HELP! Am I sensitive?

[Samantha]

Long story short, my best friend and I are joining a soccer league on Sundays that my ex boyfriend told us about.
My ex and I are usually close and friends, but something happened, and we haven't talked in a week,


My best friend has the guy who is in charge of it's phone number, so he would obviously be the best person to ask

But my friend insists that she asks my ex boyfriend the questions (she has a boyfriend, so it's nothing like that)… But I told her that asking the guy in charge would make more sense, so my friend told me she'd ask the man in charge.

I creeped onto my friend's Facebook (she left her Facebook password saved), and I saw that she messaged my ex instead.. Why would she lie to me and then message my ex?
I texted and asked her who she ended up messaging (just to see what she would say) and she never responded


But I kind of feel like if your best friend isn't talking to her ex right now (and you aren't even friends with the ex boyfriend), then why should you be talking to the ex-boyfriend… especially if the answers could easily be answered by the guy who runs the league.


or am I being too sensitive because my ex and I aren't talking right now? Or do I have a right to feel weird about my best friend talking to my ex more than I am? Especially since this is her 2nd time messaging him about it in 1 week...

[me]

Too long... didn't read!

[Jake]

No, I don't think you're being over-sensitive. You do have a right to feel what you're feeling. It all stems from the fact that your best friend, who you care about much is keeping things from you and messaging your ex instead behind your back. Disregarding that you might have any lingering feelings about your ex (I hope so), it's a long shot but maybe your friend has developed some feelings for your ex and she might be taking advantage of you and your ex's increased distance (the fact that you guys have stopped talking). No offense to anyone.