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Cris · 03-24-2014, 04:20 PM

I recently found out my gf was on POF messaging guys harmlessly asking to give head, BUT, THIS WAS WHEN SHE WASNT WITH ME BECAUSE WE WERE BROKEN UP. She has never cheated in person and the guy who messaged me telling me about her said she was all talk and never decided to meet up and set a date. So im relieved to hear all that. I know because I been with her, that mostly she is all talk no action. Her POF has no pictures on it and old info. What she did was add them on Facebook so they could see what she looks like. And the other problem is, shes friends with her ex on Facebook. How do I know they don't talk? Even though the ex has a gf.

I did approach her and told her she cheated online! She denied it of course. But she always used to say in the beginning "My ex talked to people online harmlessly and I didn't think much of it. I was mad at first. I didn't think its cheating. In person it is." I think she thinks its ok.

Everything reminds me of her. Shes not my first love, but she was the ONLY ONE I ever feel the deepest and quickest for. I fell before I met her, just from talking. Shes beautiful and can be so sweet. I miss her so bad and we planned on a future together. We were even engaged a month ago but I had to end it once I found out about this.

Idk what to do. I wish I could still have a future with her. I truly love her and I never cheated on her and never would and she knows that. I treated her like gold, she always told me.
SHOULD I BE MAD EVEN THOUGH WE WERE BROKEN UP AT THE TIME?

Jan · 03-24-2014, 04:29 PM

With time these feelings will go away

u dnt care · 03-24-2014, 04:36 PM

If you want a future with her your going to approve that of her sexting other guy. If your not okay with your wife texting other guys that she wants to suck their ******* , then she's not the girl for you. MOVE ON

Blah · 03-24-2014, 04:41 PM

First of all stop calling her "my girl", because she is not. Second, stop checking her facebook to see what shes up to. Third, hang out with friends and have fun, you're free. Last, get a new girl.