I can't take it anymore, my dad wants me to do what HE tells me with MY life.?

[۞♥-Clover-♥۞]

I'll keep it extremely short. I'm in first year university and an only child.
My dad wants me to graduate, go to med school, go to the USA and practice there.
I want to become a neuroscientist, do research, maybe stay in Canada or go to Australia or somewhere else that I get a job at.
I've lived in the US, and I don't really fancy it as much as Canada (not saying its a bad place, just not for me).

My dad will not stand for anything else. I don't want to do med school for the wrong reasons, and I'm not interested in pathobiology and medicine/drugs.
He's breaking me to a point where I start crying ever time we talk about my future, and I do not cry easily at all.

Just wondering if I should just give in and do what my life says. My life might be miserable but atleast my dad will be happy.
My parents are completely against me being independent. I was not allowed to live on residence because I need to stay with them until they say I'm allowed to be independent (and they fight a lot, so I continuously need to be there to mediate them).
My parents are completely against me being independent. I was not allowed to live on residence because I need to stay with them until they say I'm allowed to be independent (and they fight a lot, so I continuously need to be there to mediate them).

[abcd]

Usa is the best! All the celebrities are over here! But it's your life, so tell your dad that he lived his lofe and now this is your life so you make your decisions and not him. If he wants you to be happy then he should trust you and believe in you.

[Michael]

Do what you want to do. Do what makes you happy.


If he pays your tuition then your screwed.

[Sariah]

If you're still depending on him financially (you still live with him, he gives you money, food etc) he's obviously gonna make you do what he wants. You have to become independent to prove that you're capable of doing what YOU want, not him. Once you're independent you don't have to do what he says or wants because you're a grown adult who can make your own choices. It's tough being on your own but it's worth it, instead of having to live the life of someone elses desires. Hope this helped, good luck!

[097]

Because you depend on them and what they are asking is not totally not good for you it seems ok. How about this Graduate ,make money ,move out, get a second major. Many people do this.


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