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i am really starting to hate my best friend..?
03-24-2014, 04:22 PM
Post: #1
i am really starting to hate my best friend..?
I am going to make this a long story short.

>she never tells me anything deep about her personal life,

>then bugs me about mine and makes me feel unimportant about it

>took my diary after months of begging for it,

>kept it for about a year,

>claims her life is more secretive and that's why she can't tell me about it

>complains when i make a new friend "is she going to steal you away from me" (this is usually the day i meet her)

>but completely ignores me in front of me when talking to someone else (same frequent persons)

>I am a bit introverted and don't like to talk a lot- so she complains i don't make conversation.

>I know for a fact she thinks she is better than me, and doesn't care to hide it

>she makes fun of me whenever i mean something serious

>said i was a sadistic demon when i started expressing my hate for someone,

>but complains about my friends and how much she hates them

>i know she thinks i am fatter than her

>brags about everything,

>and i have been having problems with my dad so she makes a point to talk about everything her dad does

>complains about her family life (rivalry with her sister)

>while my relationship with my dad is non-existent and my mother made a point to tell me how she is "afraid of how dark i am"

>my parents kept on calling me evil and scornful, and she didn't take me seriously

>she never takes me seriously

>it is obvious how she thinks she is prettier than me

What do i do? I don't have a choice to stop being friends with her because i will never hear the end of it, (i am talking months of "what is wrong" and "take me baaack") and talking to her is practically impossible because all she will say is "okay i will try so sorry" which she never takes that commitment seriously, what can i do?

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03-24-2014, 04:32 PM
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Simple.. she isnt your friend! get rid of this relationship.. you will feel a lot better. let her know why you are doing this if you want.

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03-24-2014, 04:35 PM
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Dump that b*tch. She's no friend.
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03-24-2014, 04:43 PM
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Get a new one dummy
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03-24-2014, 04:46 PM
Post: #5
 
You say you don't have the choice to stop being friends with her, but it would be really bad if you stayed friends with her. This sounds like a REALLY bad friendship. Does she know how you feel about all this?
If she doesn't, try telling her. Maybe she doesn't realize she's doing stuff like that. Hopefully. If that isn't the case, you have to treat this like you would treat a bad bf/gf relationship, and break up with her even though it'll be hard.
Tell her that you can't be friends with her, and stick to your guns. Block her number in your phone, ignore her at school, block her on facebook, twitter, wherever you have contact with her.
That's not a good friendship. It sounds like she has issues, and she may need a friend, but she doesn't need to hurt her friends like that.
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03-24-2014, 04:48 PM
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I would stop being her friend. If you want to try and keep her as your friend just talk to her. If she wont listen to you or consider anything you try to say, she is not a friend.
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03-24-2014, 04:51 PM
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its time to find a better friend like i tell my daughter you are allowed to have more than one friend
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