will he come back? does he still care?

[turnedaround]

We broke up a week ago. I haven't tried contacting him out of respect for his wishes. But, when we broke up he did some strange things. He told me that he doesn't feel the same way about me and that he needs to get his life together so we can't be together. But he did a few things that make me think he didn't exactly know what he wanted.
1. He had me keep a necklace he's had his entire life that he had given me a month prior when we took a break. When he have it to me he said he wanted me to have it "in hopes that we find our way back to each other" 2. When he said the final goodbye he stood starting into my eyes for atleast a minute, sat on the bed with me, embraced me tighter than he ever had, said "i think things will get better for us" (i don't know if he meant individually or what) stared into my eyes a while again kissed me on the forehead and left. 3. He made plans with me to get coffee in a couple weeks before he left. But said not talking for a while would be good. ???

[elizabeth]

The guy's confused. I would not pin the rest of my life on the few confused responses to breaking up with you. Leave off talking for a bit and then ask him what's up.

[tceffE rorriM]

That's a romantic description.

Now on to what I'm thinking. Don't settle. Whatever this guy is doing, don't be his safety net. At least, that's how I'm reading this. He's going to play Mr. Bachelor because he can. You've been upfront that you really are into him. He's thinking, okay, I don't know. Like, who else is out there, possibly? IMO, move on please. Have some fun, and don't wait around for anyone to figure things out. What a waste of valuable time. Be friends, that's kewl, just make sure he sees you with other guys. That ups the ante and stirs the heart's jealousy. Don't you just love competition.

[Tiger by the Tail]

Why are you waiting for something uncertain and putting your life on hold when you can be out there experiencing something new?

You need to let go of what you no longer have to make way for what comes next.

[Bittervein502]

It is best you move on because guys like this may never fully decide.

for the next guy:
Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean,
less baggage. Let years of perfect relationship before marriage
(if you want you can always be engaged and married after years has passed).
You can always accept the marriage ring and just marry when you have a few years of
solid peace and love engagement/relationship. Make sure only settle for your soul
mate with peace and keep in mind there are many soul mates.

Arguing is normal but is
it good? no, so make sure it is 7 years no arguments. After 7 solid years of perfect
marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought.
If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good
method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love
Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free.
You can even attend after marriage. Make sure no medicines.

On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.
Love and the Good Life will come
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