I can't stand my family?

[Mellissa]

My family ever since I was 14 years old was annoying. They drag me on family trips they know I hate and they discourage my dreams. They always say nasty things to me too. They do love me they are never overly mean to the point it is a buse but I literally can't stand any of them. I am grateful from what have from them like a phone, clothes, and such. I truly and fortunate but I absolutely can't stand my family. My dad's mean sarcastic humor is so hurtful and he only agrees what my mom says. My mom is a physco she flips out all the time and drags me to places she knows I hate. I always am in trouble. For example; my family last year planned a trip to Baltimore to look at colleges and he refused to take off work yet when I said I didn't want to go they flipped and called me selfish. They let my brother do whatever he wants. My family claims I have a horrible attitude but I only have this horrible attitude when I am around my family. I can't spend another day with them. What do I do?

[Evelyn]

This is a marriage and divorce question forum, not an "i'm angry teenager, i hate my family" rant.

[Good Life by Love]

it is the best right now you can move to your other family but is not the same I know. Just respect your parents, love your family and keep peace. Start working whatever even cutting grass or baby sitting to save money for apartment and car and bills and food when your 18. I will tell you this many people out care about them only and will take advantage of you so try to appreciate, really trule what you have because many people will trade with you anyday.

Also now focus on your school, job and chores. Make sure to give much love to both parents, help where you can.

School= College you want to go to, major you will go for, student aid of fee waivers or even scholarships ( go to the college your thinking about and just go to the student center and schedule a consular to discuss all this. They are very helpful. You might need to revisit to check that your on track. You can even take college course now if you wanted. Make sure your high schooling is on top of it's game.

Job=find any decent job near by that works with your schedule. Maybe waitress which gets good tips and you can talk so time will go by fast. Make sure to be smart, because there are many smart guys out there trying to trick girls with money.

Chores, just do them asap.

I hope this all will help.

On another note you seem to be a very nice person, so I like to add that what ever person you want a serious relationship with, take your time (years) and really really really see if this is the person you will spend your whole life with. If you can even better never get married and just enjoy your life with nothing serious, make sure the other party knows your intentions. I also like to add though, in marriage it is a different kinda love, a very valuable kinda love. Always do whats best for everyone like what you did when you asked this question,

Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free

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