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What's wrong with the boyfriend?
03-24-2014, 04:27 PM
Post: #1
What's wrong with the boyfriend?
She's know him since August 2013. 4-5 break ups since then and he's back with her now.

I'm a really good friend of hers and she thinks so too. She even told me I am.

Her boyfriend won't let me or any other guys meet up with her just as friends, he doesn't like her messaging me on Facebook, liking my statuses or any of my posts!! He gets jealous of it!!

He wants a baby and marriage already!!

He thinks it applies to her with all guys!! He even checks her Facebook friends list!!

Wtf is his problem??

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03-24-2014, 04:31 PM
Post: #2
 
His problem is that he is immature, and controlling... this is the recipe for a life of misery for her. He will get her pregnant just to have her tied down, not because he can be a proper father to the kid.
He is pushing for fast commitment and is trying his best to separate her from her friends and support system.
In short... he is abusive and she isn't smart enough to understand it.
On some level she knows this guy is bad news... they've broken up 5 times in a year. It is not going to improve.
A female will stay in an abusive relationship for sex, but as the beatings progress in severity, the female eventually has to choose between living and dying. Most wait until they literally have to bolt from the house in fear for their lives.
You need to meet this girl for coffee and print out the below article to take to her. She needs the wake-up call. She needs to kick him to the curb once and for all. If she needs to, she needs to file for a restraining order with the local police.

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