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Should I get involved (re posting this as not enough answers)?
03-24-2014, 04:30 PM
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Should I get involved (re posting this as not enough answers)?
Hey I'm 23 and have been a personal trainer for 2 years. My client is 14 (15 in two days). About an hour ago I was checking my Facebook and her profile picture came up on my newsfeed... I saw it had a lot of comments and I've been training her for a year so she's like a little sister and I know she gets really badly bullied at school so I checked through the comments on her picture and most of them were horrible and saying stuff like "Go die you ****" or "You're not wanted" or "Fat" and also they wrote "Ugly" on it. I'm so angry... No one is sticking up for her and I know her mum doesn't really care about the bullying. So should I step in and stick up for her? If so what should I put? Any suggestions??. Oh and also I worry because what if she does kill herself... I'd never be able to forgive myself and I don't want to see the poor kid get beat up or hurt again. So what should I put (without making it look too inappropriate) almost as if I was her big brother?

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03-24-2014, 04:37 PM
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First I suggest you asking her indirectly,as you are telling her should I help you or not but in other way.second help her with suicidal issues(I think).if shetold you she needs help help her if not help her from away.without her knoledge

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03-24-2014, 04:46 PM
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first off, you should make sure she is doing ok. send her a positive message. then on the comments on the picture, instead of adding fuel to the fire, just make nice comments. kind of like you didn't see the negative comments. you probably know way more about who she truly is and can say things about the good person she is instead of focusing on her looks. that was nothing sounds inappropriate and if you comment on her looks, say something like beautiful, that way no one misinterprets it in a creepy way. make sure she knows that the drama now will not last forever, everyone faces bullying at some point. try not to get into any confrontation when commenting on the pic though, just speak directly too her, don't antagonize anyone. just tell her only losers are that rude and immature to someone they don't truly know.
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03-24-2014, 04:51 PM
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if you get involved it would be the best decision you make but please ask her first that if she is okay with it.i wish i had someone like you because i was also bullied a lot in my school.you have to help her.
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