my bestfriend is inlove with me, but I don't like him. Should I stay friends with him?

[Claudia Andrade]

My bestfriend told me a few days ago that hes inlove with me, but I have no romantic feelings for him. Plus I have a boyfriend that I'm very happy with. My bestfriend is getting really clingy eventough I'm not really trying to talk to him. He deleted me off of facebook twice and now he's mad that I won't re add him. Hes also talked about my boyfriend and makes himself the victim. I know I'm friendzoning him, but I'm already in a relationship. So should I still stay friends with him or just stop talking to him altogheter? Or what should i tell him? I've already told him that nothing is guna happen between us, but he doesn't understand. Thanks xx

[Chris L]

The easy way for him is to tell him again (one last time), that things are not going to happen between you to and that you would like to try and continue a friendship AFTER he realizes that and deals with his heartache.

[dom]

I think you should give him an opportunity!!! That guy could be the love of your life you will never know give him a chance. Don't keep everything for your self. Learn that giving is a blessing.

[Carlos]

Seems like you enjoy the fact that he loves you. Also he is your best friend.

If he deleted you off of facebook, then he obviously has issues.

Therefore, if you actually *didn't* like him, you would've lost him even as a friend pretty fast. So either stop pretending, or get rid of him as a friend. Don't feel bad.

[VoiceOfTheWind]

You should probably tell him that you two should stop talking. If he's going on like that then it's only going to ruin the friendship anyways, might as well end it now, and just be acquaintances are something. It's pointless to continue on as best friends. He's always gonna be jealous and jealously breeds envy, and envy and zealously together, can sway a mans heart into dangerous territories. Keep yourself from that! Hopefully it will also keep his heart from that.