My boyfriend has been talking to another woman online?
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03-24-2014, 04:33 PM
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My boyfriend has been talking to another woman online?
I found out that my boyfriend of 10 months has been talking to another woman online. Apparently they met in a random chat-room like chatroulette. They added each other on facebook (a month ago) and have been talking everyday since then. They don't really flirt, except he said she looked pretty once about her profile pic. She lives like 6 hours away so I don't think they are looking to hookup. They talk about random crap. I found out about it going through his facebook account, and I made him fess up. He says they're just friends but they msg each other more than he msg's me. What should I do?
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03-24-2014, 04:34 PM
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tell him, me or her. decide now, kthanks.
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03-24-2014, 04:44 PM
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This is tricky because its not appropriate for him to be communicating with other females while he has a gf, but you said yourself that they arent flirting and prolly not looking to hook up. My advice to you? Chat up a guy that is the same as this girl, like hours away, and from the same website. And if your bf finds out about it, then tell him the truth: "well you do it and youre just friends, right?" And see how he feels. Thats the only way to make him feel the equality of this situation. Honestly tho, I dont think you have anything to worry about, so its one of those "pick your battles" things... Good luck.
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03-24-2014, 04:47 PM
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1:You could wait see if it dies out.
2:Spend more time with him,and if he sneaks around you to msg her,then yeah there is somethingOption 3:is risky but you could pose as him and ask her how she feels about him[jokingly] but you would erase any evidence, thats to know for sure but it puts your relationship at risk.Either way trust is importain in any good relationship.It could just be nothing or the start of something if you have to snoop on his fb it isn't a heathly relationship he should anyways make you feel like ur #1.Guys will always deny cheating so plenty girls snoop with good reason .I would just keep a close watch for now. |
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03-24-2014, 04:55 PM
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I think you should break up with him. What he is doing may be innocent now, but if he is really talking to this woman more than he talks to you, he is already growing feelings for her. What is the point in staying with someone who finds more happiness and excitement talking to someone else? You deserve better.
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