he sends me a pic of his penis after i stopped talking to him? was he trying to get back at me?

[BlackWingButterfly!]

I met this guy through facebook, never have we met in person. I thought he was a creep and obsessive and would try to be controlling but I was always nice to him anyways though bc I am never mean to people. He would always manipulate me when we would text or talk, make me feel bad...he knew that I was a very nice, and a sweet person. So I guess he saw me as someone he could control I guess. He wanted a relationship with me so badly and told me how I was so beautiful and sweet. He would never stop texting me and get mad if I wouldn't respond I was always too nice to him and he would always make me feel bad so I would always tell him what he wanted to hear bc I was afraid of his actions if I pissed him off. I should of kicked him to the curb from the beginning. I finally had the courage and told him that we weren't gonna be anything he got mad and kept blowing my phone up. Then 2 weeks later after not hearing from him he sent me a pic of his penis, I changed my number and blocked him.

[Under Siege]

Omg I think it's my ex boyfriend, HAHA I broke up with a guy and he started sending me pictures of his pee wee. It's about control- in a way. You said he was controlling, my ex was basically a monster (very abusive). He has in his head this idea that he has power over you for whatever reason (I'm guessing related to how he views his manhood). In his head he probably feels he's irresistable.

@AA, women don't make men dangerous. They either are, or they aren't. Option B besides harassment is always you know, not doing something illegal and not harassing her.

[A A]

lol. Yes, it's easier to NOT respond the 1st time to a text/phone call then to "play games" obviously you didn't like him from the start so don't lead dudes on they consequences could be very dangerous to you and risky so don't even give your number to a guy you don't see yourself slightly interested in

[old timer]

what a creep, you did the right thing, if you are scared and you still have the photo you could show it to the police, it is illegal to send such photos and he could be charged.

But the police would probably just talk to him and that would scare the life out of him and he would not bother you or any other girl again.... maybe that's what he needs and you might prevent some other girl from going through the trauma that your going through, which would be great.

[AC]

That actually can be seen as sexual harassment. I wish you luck in dealing with it. Think things through