Still upset over losing My Libra Man i'm very hurt and i can't get him out of my Mind what can i do?

[Gina]

i met this man jim 3 months ago he was doing a job here in california when i initially met him it was online and honestly i was just looking for someone to help me finacially but when i got to know him i realized he was a nice guy,attractive and generous i started falling for him hard we spent all of our time together and he always told me i was beautiful and he was very sexy and a great lover so one day his phone rings and i see its this woman calling named eugenia i asked him who she was he said she was his ex but when he left back to Oregon i did a check on him cause i got a weird feeling and her name popped up so i searched her name on facebook and there it was a profile pic with her and him i was shocked and devastated i confronted him and at first he told me not to contact him then he finally told me that he had been with her for some years and that they were broken up when he was here in california so then he told me not bother with him any longer and that he never wanted anything serious he just wanted to be friends all along even though i told people he was my boyfriend and he did tell me he loved at times i dont know what to do i still love him alot and the weird thing is this woman looks nothing like me she extremely over weight sorry no offense and shes 7years older than him i dont get it and looks dont mean anything but it just hurts cause im so confused by this its almost like theres some arrangement between the 2 of them and its not really love at all cause i told her on facebook everything about me and i know she knows about me but she never responded her 28 year old daughter did im actually wondering if she still dealing with him or if he's still seeing her ?? i love him alot and i cant get him out of my mind hes a libra sept 28 im a capricorn dec 29 is there some way to repair this at least were he can talk to me i would just like one text message cause right now he wont answer hisphone i think he has me blocked from calling him what should i do please let me know My birthday is Dec 29th 1974 His birthday is Sept 28th 1971 i don't this tells you anything
but i'm a Leo rising even though i know the capricorn/libra's don't mix I LOVE HIM!! i must be crazy
Oh when i said i was initially looking for someone to help me financially i'm not a hooker i just ment a friend who wants to treat me to dinner,drinks, movies that kind of thing and no strings attached with anything intimate just thought i'd clarify

[hsboy]

just tell him and cry guys are suckers for tears good luck.

[Aquarianus]

It's possible he's trying to get away from you because he feels you have become abnormally obsessed with him.

You need to leave him alone. He wants out.