Need some Ex advice please answer I know its long but I need your help! thanks much!?

[Jered]

Thank you for looking at this question! . Anyways my ''ex's friend'' that's what I think sent me a friend request and message me saying hey I have something important and i need to talk to you, ok and she asked why I stopped talking to my ex and I just said ha lots of reasons put me through a lot and then what doesn't make sense she said oh im sorry I thought you were still talking to her? but she just asked why I stopped talking to her seems sketchy, and then she went on telling me she hasn't been herself lately and telling me she always used to talk about you and other stuff, it seems like this person that messaged me is my ex because I think they gave both there account passwords away so I think she logged on this account and asked these questions because I had a feeling that it felt like it was my ex asking the questions and also this person that messaged me doesn't go on her account anymore because the mobile is off and don't you think she would of kept her account open on her phone app? instead she logged out and it was probably my ex that did this and then logged back in her account on her phone, and plus I blocked my ex from everything and this 'ex's friend'' wants me to text her and I told her I unblocked my ex's phone number and then my ex's friend said okay then im telling her you did but my ex hasn't text me maybe she wants me to text her maybe she's wondering if I still care and well I do but there's reasons why I can't text her she made me sad and played with my feelings :'( and should I text her back or go on her ex's friends list and say to one of them hey I need to get in touch with rose since she isn't going on her Facebook anymore.. what should I do with this please help!! thanks much really Thanks!. Should I just messaged my ex and say hey you been down what's wrong I miss her so much ! :'( I tried to forget about her for a month and then her name got brought up and bam im miss her so much now what should I really do!? and the girl hasn't updated her post in a long timeeee ! maybe my ex just wants me to text her?

[Mohamed A]

Listen dude I can't judge if she still likes you or not because I don't know how your relation went on but I can help you with some of my experience because I have been through similar situations a few years ago:

- Rule number 1: Never ever ever talk to anyone through chatting about past relationships and alike especially your ex's friends even if you are sure that these are really her friends. Well girls pass talks to each other and that will make your situation bad and if it wasn't your fault from the beginning what you will say might turn it all upon you so to free your mind just don't talk about it to anyone through chat and to any of her friends in real life.

- Rule Number 2: Girls are girls. They are curious. They rarely failed my suspect. I had times when I used to think does my ex tried to talk to me through other accounts? Does she still logs through my account and see what am I doing? I had clues about that like one time I found the chat turned off I felt that someone with stalking but I couldn't be sure. Later on I discovered that hell yea. Girls can do anything if they are curious to know.

- Rule Number 3: Let it go!!! You have to because if you didn't you will get depressed just don't think about her and try to meet new girls I know it's hard but trust me a few hang outs and some talking with girls will relieve it just try not to stay alone and think as much as possible and you will get over her and if she likes you time will tell and she will start to show signs then you can do something else.

- Rule Number 4: Girls are patient. 1 month is not enough. You will have to wait longer because time fixes a lot. Plus I will tell you something when you show the girl that you still care she so loses her interest. But if you showed nothing she will be so jealous and interested to know what do you think about it until she gives up and talk to you honestly.

- Finally: If it's her fault don't text her first be strong. Show her that you aren't falling for her fake love anymore. That will tear her and make her feel how bad she is

Hope this helps