What is the reason why my Ex boyfriend is doing this? guys plz help?

[Aliciahi5]

well my ex and i dated for one year, im his first girlfriend. Im 21 and hes 20. He left me cuz he said he lost feelings and assured me that there wont be another chance. This was late july. We spoke a few times after the break up but we havent spoke for about 3 months...untill now!

this is what has been going on:

-he created a fake myspace page and said he lives in my town (which he doesnt and he doesnt know anyone from here except me)

-calls my house on private every now and then (i checked in with the phone company and yes it was from him)

-he created a facebook cuz i had one... then i deleted him off facebook and he readded me on xmas eve.

-he messaged me on xmas eve saying merry xmas and send me 4 kisses. I wrote you too and he never wrote anything back. kisses? wtf?

-hes making his best friend message me and asking me random question about what im doing.


so id like the males to answer this question...why is he doing all of this? hes the one that dumped me! very confused, help?
yes in a way i do have some feelings and miss him but i would only go back to him if he convinces me that same problems wont happen again that ruined the relationship in the first place. Just being careful here.

[Brian]

he feels he made a huge mistake and won't admit it. In the interim he's somewhat stalking you. You didn't say how you feel but I would say you and him need to have a deep conversation about this with him.

You're the more mature one obviously here... I'd say if you don't talk with him, find someone else and cut him free from your life as much as possible or else he's going to continue.

Good luck.