This boy I have loved for so long..my feelings are here to stay..forever?

[Ash]

Hi everyone... I am so glad your reading this because I have poured my heart and soul out to my friends about this guy I am deeply in love with..I feel as though they don't understand and theykeep giving me the same responses. can you help?

My name is ashley and i am in the 8th grade.. I am in love with this guy named Brandon.. he is also in the same grade as me.. we have all advanced classes together.. i see him a lot in the morning. i dress all pretty and look my best everyday for him... he is very very smart.. he is 6 ft tall ..has brown hair. i am the only one in my school who thinks he is the most handsome guy in the world.
You see I dont think i told you that i have liked him for 3 years and my fealings only get stronger.. every time i see him my heart skips a beat and i only want him to know that I love him more than the world.... i would do anything for him...
anyway enough of the mushy stuff... i will tell you what he does. ok so some days he stares at me..some days he avoids me.. But i can catch him looking out of the corner of his eye trying to see whati am doing.. or sometimes he pretends to crack his neck.. i laugh.. So then sometimes he is really loud because i think he wants me to hear him..idk... Wel all I say is that I think about him 99.9% of my day.. he makes me want to succeed in everything...
So him and i are in this club..french club..and we had a dinner friday night to sponser our club to raise money... He was there in nice clothes and I was there soooo pretty looking ...So he ends up looking at me half the time... i saw him..then he dropped a tray and everyone looked at him in the room because it made a sound..he looked embarassed...he looked at some pple and then looked straight at me..of course my friends and i were laughing.... then another time was when my bro was walking by the doorway..in the school so i smiled and waved to my bro..then brandon walks by the doorway and i was still smiling...his dad was there soo i didnt say anythin to him like i planned... I just love this kid... So i got allconfident but when he is at school its different....
There is one problem...there is this other girl...this girl by the name of chelsea..she flirts with everyone..all the guys including brandon...she comments on his wall..and he comments on her wall.. it gets me soo ticked off....shes not even that pretty...Should i worry about this? I dont think soo because she flirts with everyone... she makes remarks towards him when shes walking down the hall..like Brandi i love...in a childlike tone... God i hate her...
i have never really talked to brandon ..like a conversation.. but yet i love him... i think he might not like me because i havent talked to him before and i am not the most fit person,,,
i believe we have sooo much in common.. he is sooooo sarcastic...have you ever felt this way..
I am hoping that when i get to highschool he might like me idk.... pple tell me to keep my options openand move on but..I Cant ...... i just cant talk to himmm...ITs the most hardest thing i will ever have to do.. garunteed.

i believe i have told you everything there is to know about the guy i want to be with ......
dont you agree if there was nothing there i would have been over him a long time ago...
he's soo nervous around me it's funny..
I really am scared because if this doesnt work out I am afraid that I will never get ober him...aughhhhhh
please no stupid offensive comments..
if you really knew How ifeel inside ...you would be like.. wow she really loves him!!!
everyone thinks we should date and they werent all my friends who said that...

thanx i know it was long ..but i need a cincise answer.. that will give me answers..thanx ily.. <3
2 days ago - 2 days left to answer.
Additional Details
By he way he blocked me on facebook guys....
He infact has never had a girlfriend...only like 3 people have ever hada crush on him not including me in the past 5 years..
people have asked him out for me...but he said no because he doesn't like me..my friends say that he will come around because no one likes him...IDK
I think he blocked me on facebook because he probably thought that I would talk to him.., maybe he just didnt want the relationship to work..but what should i say to him if that;s what I need to do..

[Tom]

Well lets start by talking to him and if you really love someone ask them out be4 its too late cuz i remember i loved this girl and all through 7th, 8th, and never asked her out, we talked and i really liked her and when it got to 9th grade all the guys were after her, she changed and now we r just friends, and sometimes talk so if u really love someone dont let them slip away, just tell them how u really feel!!

[Kaley]

Ok, first I can not believe I read it all... but I don't know...I related a lot to your story (for the parts I actually understood lol)
I would tell you to not give up. If you are in love with him and have been for 3 years chances for you to forget him are...non-existant ...I know what I'm talking about!!
Try to talk to him even though it's hard, you neeeed to!! It's the only solution ... I'm sorry there is not trick really...

I have some questions... (could you answer them in the aditionnal details section so I can answer again?)
why did he block you from facebook?? That's weird!!

Anyways do not give up, but don't be clingy!!
good luck

[bananas]

I can relate to how you're feeling and I don't for a second doubt the strength of your feelings and how much this situation is hurting you.

But I am going to be very honest, this is unhealthy. No matter how much you like him, it obviously is not working, he hasn't responded in the way he should. You know maybe he does like you back, but maybe you also scare him with the magnitude of your feelings. You need to move on from him, and put yourself first! I know it's not easy, and I know that you're reading this thinking I can't just get over him, but eventually you will, but you're not going to get anywhere if you refuse to try and just dwell on it.

I know your friends are saying he'll come around, thats because as a friend it's there job to say that to protect you, have you ever seen that movie 'he's just not that into you' , rent it, theres a book read that to, but most importantly listen to that one sentence.

Who knows what may happen in the future, he may soon confess his love for you, or maybe you'll meet someone else and fall head over heels in love with them. The thing is at the momnet everything revolves around him with no results, this could be stopping you from meeting someone else.

I know it's not the answer you want, you want to hear he likes you, and he'll eventually come round, hang in there. As long as you carry on with the same behaviour you'll get the same results.