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How do I find this girl? Is it normal to keep searching for someone like this?
03-24-2014, 04:46 PM
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How do I find this girl? Is it normal to keep searching for someone like this?
basically there's this girl I met and I think she's interested in me which is great because I'm interested in her. I hesitated and couldn't continue the conversation. The thing is I have been looking at the school for her a few times and no luck. It was early in the year when we had a class together. It could be she doesn't go there anymore but I can't help but let her go. Some years back I flaked on a date. I even didn't go out with this girl who suggested we get together.
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I could enroll there again. I'm currently going to a different school but not far. The thing is I could be setting myself up for failure. Perhaps she doesn't go there anymore.
I remember her name but couldn't find her. Maybe she made herself unsearchable.
I don't know if the teacher pronounced her last name wrong but the way I spelled it on facebook is how he pronounced. I checked online to make sure that's how you do it. It's possible her last name is spelled differently

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03-24-2014, 04:53 PM
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if u remember her name u can just find her on Facebook and then message her

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03-24-2014, 05:02 PM
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I think its normal, what you are doing when you find someone that you think could be the one you would search and look until you find that person. Because we all want to be happy. Personally I have done something similar looking for a guy it took me 6 months with just his first name but i found him on Facebook, his name was Patrick which is a common name.

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If you have access to you old school class information. My school has a portol and it allows you to see whos in your class that might help.
If you have her last name look her up on fb

I wish you luck
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03-24-2014, 05:12 PM
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It's possible that she does not have a facebook. Its normal to search for someone you want to get in contact with, thats why facebook was created. Search her first name and last name, if that doesn't work, search her first name then and city of location or school she might have attended. It's possible that she switched schools but unlikely due to the timing.

Chances are if she was enrolled in that school at the start of the year she is still enrolled in the school now. I think she might have either dropped a few classes to make her course load lighter OR she could have changed her schedule so that she has some days off. So perhaps when you were looking for her she had those days off? If you know her number it would be a lot easier for you to just call her up and talk to her.. although its hard to take anyone seriously unless you have actually physically spoken to them in real life at some point in time (it sounds like you two didn't really talk much so i wouldn't advice it).

If you think enrolling in her school would help then that might be a good idea if you are really serious about her and can't find her anywhere else. It sounds like you have enough clues as to where she is its just you are not sure of anything. If you two have mutual friends or you know someone that might know her then you should ask them. Your best bet is getting her facebook profile because most likely she would have all those details on her facebook. If you think there is a chance she does not have facebook then you might have to go to her school and look for her. Don't know what else to tell you other then to keep trying! As long as you go with the intent to talk to her then it should all be fine, if you just show up at her school and say nothing then she might get weireded out (assuming she still recognizes you).

There is also a chance she might not even recognize you since its been a while since you seen her. There is also another chance that she might not remember you or might assume you are just a look alike of a guy she use to know. Your best bet is to actually talk to her because that way she knows who you are and you have a chance to get to know her.. there is less room for awkwardness. If she liked you in the past then chances are if you show up and talk to her she would be flatter and start to like you again.

I liked a guy and searched for him before and ended up dating him for several years after running into him in town, only reason why we broke up was because my family moved. I can't see how anyone would dislike someone for liking them, especially if they use to like that person. I knew my ex for 7 years prior so it was easier for us to connect.. it might be different if you just met her.

Good luck!!~
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