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Rose · 03-24-2014, 04:47 PM

The man I was seeing fairly seriously, he had even said he wanted to be my soulmate and saw us growing old together, for almost a year broke up with me recently as we were in an open relationship (because that's what he wanted, to be able to see us both) and the other woman he was seeing had been married for 11 years and still was when we started dating and left her husband because she was afraid of losing my ex to me. So she left her husband and moved him out and my ex in the same day and they have been monogamous ever since. She and my ex had been open on and off for about 3 years...I just want to know if this is something that seems like it will work because I am worried about him getting hurt, they seem very happy playing house now and she posts about their relationship on facebook atleast 3 or 4 times a day and since we are all friends on facebook it pops up in my news feed all the time, i have tried to keep them out but since we have so many friends in common it comes up anyways. He says they are in love but if that's true why didn't she leave her husband 3 years ago? doesn't that seem more like infatuation? I just love him and I worry about him...

do you think this relationship will be lasting or is she bound to go back to her husband or someone else for that matter?

FamilyWoman24 · 03-24-2014, 04:51 PM

are u interested because deep down you want it to not work so you can get with him? Girl he is a piece of trash... A man that will have an open relationship, is someone which is just using women for his own benefit! He deserves her and she deserves him.. a woman that is married but sleeping with another man deserves what ever happens.. You need to move on and not worry about them! Find someone which wants to be monogamous with you!! As long as you care about this guy you will be hurt. Also you need to settle for more than that! You allowing this man to see you and another woman shows your self esteem! Dont ever settle for so low, you need to tell yourself that you deserve more and you will get more! And do not listen to a mans word, him saying that he wants to grow old with you but sleeping with this married chick and leaving you for her.. how true do you believe that was???? think about it! His actions spoke loud , his words meant nothing

Renee Aponte · 03-24-2014, 04:59 PM

Ya know I was going to keep my answer posted but FamilyWoman24 hit the nail on the head!

Betty M · 03-24-2014, 05:01 PM

You are hoping this relationship will fail and he will come back to you. You need to wake up! You are so blind that you can't see the truth about him. For 3 years he had an affair with a married woman and was also using you as a booty call when the other woman wasn't available.

Work on your self esteem and start respecting your self. You deserve to be with a man who loves YOU and will be faithful to you. Do your self a favor and block this man and woman on facebook, so you can't read anything about them on facebook. It's time for you to file this relationship away in the past under "mistakes" and move on.