Should I forgive my boyfriend from sexting?

[Angela]

I just found out that my boyfriend of 4 months has been sexting other women.
On his Facebook he was sexting two different women.
When I confronted him about it he was hysterical ad begged me to forgive him.
Just 4 days ago he said he loved me..
I'm so confused right now I need some opinions.
Before this relationship I was single for 2 years but before then I was in a relationship for 4 years when a man that beat me and physically cheated on me.
My heart can't handle being hurt anymore.
But the problem is that I honestly love my current boyfriend ( enough to the point where my heart is already forgiving him but my mind is telling me to not be foolish.
But I'm not sure if it is the wides choice to take him back or end it.

[Jessica]

Im so sorry you had to go through that, i hope you get the best, ignore him for a while, forgiving so easily will think its your weak point, show him youre not a pushover, theres anything i would forgive but cheating and disloyalty is something i can never forgive, youve been hurt already girl, dont hurt yourself more, give it time and ignore him for a while, then have a talk with him and ask him how he would have reacted if that was you, ask him what he really wants from you, just give yourself some time to think and relax, that man deserves a slap sorry...

[Ungratefuldrum517]

I believe you love your current bf, but are you IN love with him? There is a difference, think about it.

Now, i'll be completely honest. Unlike a possible drunken one night stand, sexting is not a "mistake". It is a completely conscious decision that has been going on for a prolonged amount of time. It is cheating in every sense of the word. Now i'm not going to tell you to dump him or not, thats your decision but seriously, i say this to alot of people but there are millions and millions of people out there and i'm sure there are millions of guys you would like and would treat you way better then what you have ever experienced you just need to find them. Don't waste your time if you think there isn't a good future with this dude because lets be honest, whats the point of a relationship if there is no future in mind? You have flings, one night stands and friends with benefits for no future-no strings attached relationships.

Also if you forgive him its likely he will do it again since he got away with it once. Its simply how humans/cheaters work you hear it all the time in these situation. So again, i won't tell you what to do but really think this one through. Good luck.

[Damian]

If I were you I would just end it. The only reason he's saying I love you is because he got caught and he wants your forgiveness. Don't feed into that BS because soon enough it will be an endless repeating cycle and you'll get hurt over and over. End it with him and move onto someone who actually does love you and wouldn't do something as stupid as sexting people.

[Amy]

I would just end it, if he has done it once he will probably do it again because you decided to forgive him, it is as bad as physically cheating in my eyes as his intentions to cheat are obviously there, you are just leading yourself to get hurt again in my opinion, I know it is hard to give up and try to move on from it but you deserve better than that, he needs to realise what he did was out of order and shows his lack of respect for you.