I can't hold a relationship or sex?

[Just Peachy]

So I have this struggle.
Im 18 and have had a few relationships here and there, but I keep getting dumped again and again.
so I tried quiting romance and focus on getting free, nsa sex. But no guy I chose is into that. They want a relationship, but not with me.

I also have a personality disorder called Borderline Personality Disorder

What do I do about this?
And im not ugly, im pretty attractive
facebook.com/ClownyQueenzel

[Sadness]

It's normal for people to get dumped a lot, it's life. Well, you can start looking for the man for your dreams or something, haha.

[Romeo]

If you really do have Borderline Personality Disorder as described here:
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/bo...ndex.shtml
You are going to need to get over that before you will be able to sustain a relationship. In this case there are the treatments outline at the above link. There are also recently discovered dietary factors concerning GMO and gluten that have nervous system effects, including psychological disorders:
http://www.responsibletechnology.org/gluten
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stuc...et-stalker
http://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index...c=116151.0

I have seen your profile picture. You are attractive, and should have no trouble getting a boyfriend. While you are solving your Borderline Personality Disorder you could also be studying man trapping skills. Some suggestions in that regard:

Do a web search for "alpha female", "how to trap a man", "hypnotically attract men", "Tantric Sex", etc.

Gyrating hips advertise to the male subconscious the ability to have children, and so will invoke a male's mating behavior. Train in the dances that do this such as Go Go, Hula, and Belly Dancing:
http://www.HiddenCastle.com/stdfr/a.y/bellydance.htm

Use human pheromone based perfumes. These are easily found by web search.

The diet the shapes a woman's body in a manner that is most attractive to men is high in DHA Omega 3 Fatty Acids. These are stored in a woman's body and these stores are part of what makes her attractively curvacious. Men are genetically programed to be attracted women with such stores. It is because in the later stages of pregnancy these stores transfer to the developing brain of the fetus which has a bearing on the future intelligence of the child:
http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/...nal-curves
Sources of DHA are Chia seeds, Hemp Hearts, Flax, eggs produced by flax fed chickens, grass fed beef (difficult to find because most of it is grain fed), fish oils purified by carbon extraction (avoid molecular distillation - the heat make them rancid) and grass based foods. If you contact me through my profile about this I will respond with specific recommendations. About the general importance of DHA in anyone's diet:
http://www.lef.org/search/?q=DHA%20Omega%203

A lot of men have become wary of women who do nsa sex due to rampant STDs:
http://www.cdc.gov/std/stats/
The kind of man you want is one that wants a closed relationship into which an STD can't enter.

Another thing to do is to contact the men who have dumped you to find out what went wrong. Make it clear you are not trying to get them back and will not get back at them for there response, that you want to know how it could go better with other men in your future. Also make it clear what you want is a brutally honest response and you will be able to handle it (if you cannot it is best you not ask). You will need to be prepared with a thick skin before you do this. You might also find out it was not anything about you, but that they were just the type of guy that can never settle down.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TCxZbkwkvGE

It is characteristic of men to want to spread their seed as far and wide as possible. Because it is women who end up with the child they want and need men who stay with them and invest in the raising of the child with them. It is one of the reasons why, contrary to most other species, homo sapien females are sexually available to males whether or not they are in estrus. It is why women inevitably bond emotionally to men they have sex with, while for men that can be the case but a man is able to decide not to be. It is also why it used to be common for women to tell their men "to have me you have to marry me."