Would you approach your fiancé about a female?

[A]

Friend who behaves in appropriately towards him or just let it go because they are "friends"? He knew her about 3 years before we got together 4 years ago. She is 10 years older than him and was married when they met, but her husband has since died. I have no problem with friends, but this woman can't keep her hands off him...way too touchy Feely, she calls him all hours, and she is constantly talking about him. Her fb page is covered with posts about how much she misses him, wants him to call her, says he's her best friend, calls him all sorts of pet names, says she loves him, but what strikes me is she never mentions missing her husband she spent 30+ years with but obsessively posts about my man. My man said its just friendly and he doesn't go after her like she does him but he still calls her pet names. This woman also knows we are together. I feel she is very disrespectful by wanting him to give her full attention. My man even admitted to me that she wants to be with him, even when her husband was alive, but he says he has no interest in her like that. I guess it's just hurtful that he doesn't seem to care how it makes me feel. Do you think this is okay or what should I do? Bonus question: is it appropriate for a man to block you on social media but yet have female friends that he's met online added? (Not related to my situation, just curious if that's ok or what you'd do)

[Jay]

You should kick her in the vagina.

[Lena]

I would and have. She has no respect for your relationship. She can want him all she wants but that constant calling and trying to entice him would end today. I would ask my man to check her

[esim345]

People shouldn't have opposite sex friends, other than their significant other.

People shouldn't block their significant other from their social media account.

[LEYKIS 101]

You just like the typical women naïve women!!!! You blame his female friend for what she does when its him allowing her to be disrespectful to you!!! WHY!! Because he likes the attention!! Stop blaming her!!! Your not in a relationship with her!! ITS HIM!!! Ask him why he won't do anything about it?? If he really cared about your feelings, he would tell her to respect you or he will have to stop being her friend!! But he does not want to scare away his women on the side so he makes you deal with it!!!! Even if you got rid of her, he will replace her with someone else because your second in his life!!

[sheloves_dablues]

Get over it.

He DOES care how it makes you feel. But he's mature enough to recognize that NEITHER of you have the power to control anyone else's actions. So what if she's fawning all over him? He's not encouraging it or reciprocating. He's married and committed to you.

Her behaviour is a reflection of HER, not him.

[reach-4-it]

you and he have a relationship. sidekick needs to be reminded by him. He needs to grow a set of balls and tell her. I am sure he likes the EXTRA attention she gives him. Since he has not stopped it you know it is because he enjoys it. tell him to knock it off Now. ask him if she will be sleeping between you or does she get an edge of the bed? no relationship can endure when there are 3 people in it. take care. stand up and make yourself clear.

[swbarnes2]

"way too touchy Feely, she calls him all hours,

What you mean is that your husband LETS her be touchy feely, and answers her calls at all hours of the night.

" My man said its just friendly"

He's either an idiot or he's encouraging her for his own pleasure. Her behavior is absolutely inappropriate, and wildly insulting to you, and if your husband doesn't care, it's because he doesn't give a sh*t about your feelings.

"I guess it's just hurtful that he doesn't seem to care how it makes me feel."

You are right.

"is it appropriate for a man to block you on social media but yet have female friends that he's met online added? "

Absolutely not.