Should I Pack His Bags and Kick Him Out?

[Crazy Beautiful]

I am a Nosy Girlfriend I Must Admit...Boyfriend Blocked me on Facebook?
So we've been arguing lately about facebook. Whenever we get into fights he'd say he's single on Facebook. Then delete it hours later when we have made up. He put a status that said "Who's Up" and this girl said "I'm up waiting for you" He LIKED her comment (laying in bed with me the whole time because we live together) The girl commented "Just joking" momments later. We would usually comment on each other's pages but he blocked me!!Because I cursed him out for liking that girl's flirtatious comment. (I can still see his profile from another page) He also puts up status' where he says He is tired of not being trusted and wants someone to truly love him" I commented on that one and said You have me!!!I cursed him out for saying that too. We made up when i noticed i have been BLOCKED. I said Accept me NOW or it's over. He said he was going to unblock me and send a request until I gave him an ultimatum over something so stupid I think I will pack his bags tonight when he comes home. What do you think I should do ? I have never caught him cheating He tells me that he just wants to love and be loyal to me FACEBOOK is ruining us. I deleted my account not wanting to stalk his page but i have to see what's going on...Him and I met on Facebook so I know he would not mind hooking up over the net. I do Love him

[Leona]

Make a fake face book with a different name and town. Find out if he is cheating. If he is give him the boot.

[BrookiieBabessx]

sounds like he is the type of guy who is naturally flirty. if so he will never grow out of this.
if you can put up with this then stay if not get rid because you will never be able to connect in that sort of way. facebook only causes arguements in the end. maybe try doing to him what hes doing to you to make him realise, if it doesnt work it will never work. ive been in this situation and no mater how many times i have said if you call someone else babe dont cal it me, he didnt understand and we argued with him saying well its not like hes cheating on me. its like a battle you cant win and i ended up walking away. sorry for the essay lol. hope it all works out.

[Cheryl]

This is just y I am one of the only people in the world without Facebook I hate it an it causes too many problems

[shadowsdreamisman]

He don't love you. Period.

Love means no secrets because he trusts you. He doesn't trust you, love you or even care about you.

You're a mosquito in his ear. Take his hint. Buzz off.

[Megafunk]

Sounds to me like he is not cheating at all - hes just getting sick and tired of your lack of trust, but hes not dealing with it in the right way. Blocking you and then unblocking you several times. Changing his relationship status to "single" and then changing it back to "in a relationship" later in the day when you have made up. You're both acting like 5 year olds, sorry to be harsh. If you can't learn to trust him and he can't learn not to get back at you through facebook every time you have an argument, then this relationship is going nowhere. I really think you both have some serious growing up to do. Why don't BOTH of you get rid of facebook and concentrate on having a proper adult relationship without airing your dirty laundry in the status box every time some little thing goes wrong. Seriously, your "friends" on facebook will lose respect for you very soon with the way you're both acting. Trust me - they don't want to know about it.

[Nashelle]

My dear you are beyond a nosey girlfriend...you are psycho! Has he ever given you a reason to not trust him!? Have you ever caught him cheating on you?! If the answer is "No!", you need to give him a break and check yourself. I do not know you from a can of paint, but it sounds to me that you have trust issues (maybe you have experienced cheating, witnessed it or just insecure). If the man has not given you any reason to bust his balls then don't. You are creating what we psychs like to coin as a "self fulfilling prophecy", in other words,"you" will make a person, situation, an action to be what "you" (usually negative) want it to be. If the individual respond in the behavior "you" have forced them to act out on (calling them a liar repeatedly, henceforth they have never lied, but out of frustration, they lie...just an example) you then say, "see I told you so" or "I knew it!"...keep in mind this is "your insecurity" you are needing validation for. Look, all that nagging is what it is...nagging! Stop it! You have learned this annoying behavior and you need to break the cycle. You need to do some introspection and learn, understand and love oneself in order to move forward in life with yourself and those you love. Be a better you and stop the stressin!