HELP! Am I overreacting?

[Samantha]

Long story short, my best friend and I are joining a soccer league on Sundays that my ex boyfriend told us about.
My ex and I are usually close and friends, but something happened, and we haven't talked since January 25,


My best friend has the guy who is in charge of it's phone number, so he would obviously be the best person to ask

But my friend insists that she asks my ex boyfriend the questions (she has a boyfriend, so it's nothing like that)… But I told her that asking the guy in charge would make more sense, so my friend told me she'd ask the man in charge.

I creeped onto my friend's Facebook (she left her Facebook password saved), and I saw that she messaged my ex instead.. Why would she lie to me and then message my ex?

But I kind of feel like if your best friend isn't talking to her ex right now (and you aren't even friends with your friend's ex boyfriend), then why should you be talking to the ex-boyfriend… especially if the answers could easily be answered by the guy who runs the league.


or am I being too sensitive because my ex and I aren't talking right now? Or do I have a right to feel weird about my best friend talking to my ex more than I am? Especially since this is her 2nd time messaging him about it in 1 week...
I want to tell her to stop talking to him, but I don't want to sound controlling..

[Jinga]

I feel like you're overreacting just a little. I understand that you two had a past together but out was exactly that. Your friend was just trying to get a quick answer.

At the same time, she shouldn't have lied to you but she probably didn't want you to get mad at her. It seemed like a small problem made into a big deal and I don't see how you and your ex can't at least be cordial.

[Sarah]

Yes you are being too sensitive and overly demanding to try to make your friend stop talking to someone you're mad at. Don't tell her to stop talking to him - that would be way too controlling. You also do not have a right to be mad at her, in my opinion. It would have been better if she'd just stood up to you but it sounds like she tried that and you insisted she ask the organizer rather than your ex, and she has the right to proceed as she wants.

You were out of line for snooping even if her pw was saved.