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I need a guys point of view please.?
03-24-2014, 04:56 PM
Post: #1
I need a guys point of view please.?
Ive been off and on with my ex boyfriend for the past year, and to make a long story short; Our last break up resulted in him leaving me and not saying anything. Infact what he did was go back to this girl he claimed was just a friend and told her how " I left him, and that she was such an amazing women that they were going ghost together.

Now this all happened because I was sick of him adding me on fake accounts to talk to me on Facebook, but then refused to add me on his real account, which the girl happened to be on.

Ever since he and I were together I had always got a bad vibe from the chick, not to her personally, but I would just have this hunch that he has been trying to get with her under my nose. Since I've known of her existence he has kept her and I on different Facebook profiles, and I started to grow suspicious very early. After our final breakup I just said forget it and if he wanted her he could have her. It wasn't easy though, and I've spent the last two months picking up the pieces of myself.

Not to mention; The term "going ghost, I looked it up on google and the definition hurt a lot to read.

Skip to now its been two months and I've managed to once AGAIN pick myself back up. So much that I even considered casual dating, I've always subconsciously saved myself for him hoping he'd comeback, but not anymore. I want to see and get to know other guys, and its been good so far. But here's the thing, every time I try to move on from him and see other people, he randomly pops up on my Facebook and sends me a message apologizing for leaving me and everything he did. Then he gives me his number wanting me to call him... I'm just like huh? A few months ago it was like " f*ck you and its on to the next chick. Why does he keep coming back every time I decide to see other people and move on? One again I checked his profile and only one friend is added on it, so its yet another fake account. I'm tired of that crap, I just wish he would leave.

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03-24-2014, 05:02 PM
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As a man, I would despise you for typing &quot;to make a long story short&quot;....... and follow it up with an extra 10 minutes of reading.

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03-24-2014, 05:10 PM
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He craves the attention but doesn't like you for who you really are. He only likes you because he is jealous of the feelings other guy have expressed for you in the past. Good Luck
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03-24-2014, 05:16 PM
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Block him from Facebook, and make sure to change your settings so that anyone who is not already your Facebook friend cannot see your profile. Get him out of your life. He has figured out that he can treat you like crap and you'll take him back when other girls are done with him (that's your fault, because that's exactly what you've done). You have to stop letting him treat you like crap, and that means cutting him out of your life completely, because he has already shown you over and over and over that he's going to continue to treat you like crap. Block him on Facebook, delete his number from your phone. If he continues to bother you, tell him to stop, that you want nothing to do with him, and that you will report him as a stalker and get a restraining order if he doesn't leave you alone.
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03-24-2014, 05:18 PM
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Ooo that was creepy Smile
Anyway just forget him, that's the only thing you gotta do, this guy has a problem for sure and you shouldn't take him back one day even if he wants to come back to you so just dump him forever. Block him on fb and cut any other ways of contacting, life is often a lot easier with not existence of some fucking shits.
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