Need a male perspective ! New relationship, what's the problem ?

[Channseaa]

This is a little long so just bear with me please !
Our relationship is still pretty new, we've only been "official" for a couple weeks now, and I'm not meaning Facebook official.
I'll give you a little run down of the night we made it official.
It wasn't a normal will you be my gf/bf? convo, it was (there was a convo leading up to this) me asking "Do you consider us in a relationship ?" and him responding saying he was going to ask me the same thing and then him asking if I would wanna be, to which I answered yea I would and he said he wouldn't mind it either. While driving me home he said "When my friend finds out I'm dating you she'll probably want me to bring you to her birthday dinner with me." I took that as a confirmation that we were in fact now dating and he'd most likely be telling his friends.
We talk basically everyday, but I didn't get to see him for the first week and then only for a few minutes last Thursday, and then on Saturday we went to the movies and made plans for Sunday to hang out, but they ended up falling through because he had homework.
His friends birthday dinner past... he didn't bring me along.
I see his cousin (that he's very close to) at work, but the only thing he knows is that we've been hanging out a lot.
I haven't spread the news like wildfire, but I have told most of my friends, I thought he would do the same.
So if any guys have any advice for me or a clue to as what this means please help me.
p.s we have not had sex, so it's not like I'm a bump and dump.

[Kevin]

I think he's just had a lot on his plate recently or maybe he's busy planning something for valentines day(don't get your hopes up just incase) but just let it happen occasionally people will just get really busy.

[Sean]

He could be cheating and it seems like it or he wants to break up with you although I wouldn't want to jump to conclusions or anything

[Jiao Li]

Bump dump and hump man I ain't no chump even though I got a lump I still choose to pump uh huh

[LostForWords]

Hey sometimes guys get busy! If you ARE in a relationship, then just text him or talk to him, you shouldn't have trouble talking to him like that! Just talk to him like you did in that last conversation, ask if you guys are actually official. Sometimes plans don't work and, and from a guy's point of view, we don't really over-analyze things. If plans fail plans fail, don't think of it too badly. Not talking at all though is a little weird, but the only way to solve it is to talk to HIM and see where you really stand. And guys don't tend to gossip, so if some of his friends don't know about you two yet, he probably hasn't told them. Nothing to worry about

Can I get your opinion on my question too?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...716AA5t6zy

[Kimberly Gonzales]

Don't overanalyze. Just be grateful life is going where you want it to be. Anyways, just take it slow. First off, what if he wanted to bring you along to his friends dinner, but he couldn't for some reason? Secondly, maybe he's just taking it slow or possibly in your shoes to wondering if it is official or not before telling anyone. You get what I mean? Maybe he rather tell his cousin in person? Again, he's probably taking it slow and you should too. Just go with the flow. I'm 100% sure he'll introduce you to everyone. If he doesn't in the long run, then you know what to do. Just be patient and don't overthink it. BTW, thanks for answering my question.