Cheating husband but why faking?

[Wine]

WEIRDO HUSBAND??CHEAT?
On my birthday we left for Hawaii and my hubby announced this trip as 'Family vacation' on twitter(11th Jan) but didn't mention that we are going on my birthday,instead he wrote happy birthday to me on twitter when we live together!
whats this nonsense???
After marriage just in 2007 it self i saw pix of him sitting very closely with three blondes at a restaurant,all who wear scantily dressed,midriffs showing and later one of those blondes was sitting on his lap while he was shirtless and showing his wedding ring to the camera and another blonde was kissing him on his cheeks.He got himself pictured as well.
Same year at his work tour i saw him (in a video)that he was repeatedly kissing a brunette who was quite younger than him in age, on her cheeks,hanging out with her,eating lunch with her and that girl also jumped into his arms while he kissed her head and held her in his arms.
I have seen pictures in which he was seen with a blond girl, with whom he was cuddling from behind, had his arms on her chest and neck, kissing her head at an almost empty restaurant and was laughing and joking
He was also pictured intimately with his close friend,head tilted,touching her head,his hand on her waist ,in a parking lot of their workplace in the dark of 5 years (who is 7 years younger than him and with whom he used to sit beside at his sessions,talking to her,holding her hands,even gave a pic of her in a magazine who's guest editor was my husband)
Then in June last year thrashed her publicly on radio for being a **** and the 10 men he knows. she slept with. And who she must be sleeping with while he’s talking and was in a sexual affair with her other wise how did he know that she sleeps around when they were in different sections at their workplace?That same interview he mentioned me saying what he put me through while he stopped breathing after he overdosed on drugs 6 years ago,how much his in laws care for him.
In public and on twitter he always shows or maintains that he’s such a family guy, hes a family man through and through.like hes a stand up family man.
When I go to watch him perform he kisses me in the crowds only when he can get down from the ramp way and when lots of people are seeing and when he can't get down from the ramp way i am supposed to sit backstage.
He says family time is so important and so valuable and he needs time with family so he took break from work for 3 weeks, and writing such things’ mean who is his family and then he cheats??
He will purposely mention me he did this with me he did that with me and this image has made his reputation spotless like nobody actually believes that he can cheat or cheats.
We had to act in a documentary where we had to act out a few kissing scenes or scenes showing husband bonding with his family(real) but when the whole scene was shown everyone had one thing to comment that our chemistry looked contrived, boring fluff and unnatural.
why is he doing this???
why is he deceiving everyone and himself?????
hes rich,famous and good looking.
he loves me or no???

[Eric]

this is the longest question i have ever seen in yahoo answers so far

[kate]

ah bless you honey, i really feel for you.. this is not a nice situation to be in. i think you really need to talk to him seriously about this - if it helps you could print this off (what you've written) and show it to him. are you in love with him? is also a question that you must ask yourself - would you be happy if he was suddenly lovely all the time etc and this life pattern was stopped? regardless of the money and lifestyle etc? what he is doing is not good for himself, you and the whole family and its not healthy to be living a pretence. it sounds like he is so wrapped up in his public image that he has lost himself along the way... good luck sorting your life / lives out and could you forgive the infidelity and are your feelings still the same? you sound very forgiving - please think of yourself xxx

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