boyfriend help...he wants to delete my instagram ?

[Glam girl]

Ive been going out with a boy for nearly a year
and about a month ago I found that he hid girls number from me and he saved them under boys names on his phone
Anyways i caught him and he said sorry so i forgave him I didn't ask him to delete any of his social networking sites
I already had one of the girls he hid on my Instagram and facebook ( I don't know her )
And the other day she commented on my picture saying "marry me" and i replied saying "im all yours"
I dont even know the girl its just a joke, however I think my boyfriend got a bit jealous and he blocked her from my instagram account
And i unblocked her
And he goes if i follow her hes going to delete my intsagram
I did follow her coz i havent done anything wrong and obviously im going to follow her if he was hiding her away from me
Now he wants to delete my instagram and if i dont let him he doesn't want anything to do with me
Shall i let him ? I honestly love this guy to bits but the thing he doesn't treat me right at all he tells me to fuck off now and again he calls me a lot of names but I just kind of ignore it
I don't mind deleting my account but the thing is I haven't done anything wrong and if I let him delete it im just letting him get his way

I know this seems so pathetic but help me out
what shall I do ?

[hiddenmyname]

It sounds like neither of you trust the other. Change your password so he cant delete it. If anyone told me to delete stuff like that then i would leave them to be honest.

[Feldspar]

It doesn't matter, he's getting ready to break up with you anyway. He provoked this stupid argument on purpose, even if you cave in he will just find another excuse to end it with you. Make the decision for him and dump him now. This guy is controlling, he lies, he doesn't trust you, and he's emotionally abusive. He's not going to change and you know you deserve better.