(Gay) My boyfriend confessed that he used to love his ex bf?

[Secret-Mystery]

So I've been dating my man for a month now , and last week he told me 'I love you' and feeling the same I said 'I love you too' . Then he told me he loves me more and I said no I do love you more , and he asked me how do I know that? I said because I'm 20 , never dated anyone , his my very frist boyfriend , the first person I kiss ,that I'm still virgin, the person I was waiting for... Then he told me that I am the first person he ever loved , and he never told anyone I love you among his 4 EXs, his first time was when he was 17, and that his longest relationship wasn't more than 2 weeks!

It was all fine until yesterday he told me that the day before "by luck" he found on of his EXs facebook accounts , he said he didn't want to talk about him because he wanted to froget him and when he found him he felt weird , and he told me he was his first time when he was 15 I asked if he loved him
he said yes I did .
Afterwards I tried to log in on his facebook account I found that he changed his password

Now I don't know what to think , like does he still have feelings for him? did he change his password because he spoke to him? why did he lie to me? Is he hiding other things?

I used to feel special when I believed I was the first to whom he said 'I love you' and mean it .. but not anymore. I also was ready to have s*x with him but now I don't know what if as he looked me in the eye and told me 'you are the first person I love , you are so far the longest relationship I've ever had' and lied to me what if is the same as when he looks me in the eye and says 'I love you'

I don't want to play my b*tch or smtg like that but I can't help

What should I do please people?

[886]

Get out of this bullsh*t relationship asap. He lied to you, he can't be trusted. The quicker you leave the less will be the pain.

[Jake]

It was probably his first crush/love.

You never forget it. I had a crush on one of my friends in middle school, and still to this day (10 years later) I would take him in a heartbeat.

Just chill out man, he probably did like him. They dated after all. You're worrying way too much.

[Sapphire]

Yeah, time to lose this loser before you become EX #5 or whatever. Anytime someone starts comm with ex's it's not a good sign for the current. Especially when they start shutting you out of things, that's a sure sign of a trust issue.

Bail now or pay later.

[dougeebear]

Most everyone has a past, a history of relationship successes and failures. It's part of how we learn, how we grow to become the people we are today. He may have feelings for an ex but there's a reason they are not together, and just as strongly there's a reason he's with you.

Let it go.

[Silence Dogood]

Sorry young one, as Jake says; you never forget your first crush/love. It's just the way it is. He could totally hate him now, but still love him. Hard to explain but entirely possible.


"What should I do please people?"
-Calm your tits and just see how it goes.