I want to get to know this guy better. Please help me!?

[Jess]

Okay, so I work at a supermarket, deli to be precise. But I'm checkout trained. Yesterday I was called into work at the checkout for five hours and since it was Friday, it was really quiet. I was working with this guy and he's so cute and we just kept talking and talking and we got along soooo well! I even thought that maybe he might be interested? But maybe he was being nice. I just keep thinking about him but I don't think we're ever going to talk again. Because it's a big store and we work in different departments. Can anyone give me advice? I was thinking of getting his Facebook but would that be weird? Help me pleaseeee! xoxoxx

[Ez2Tock2]

Facebook and texting are the worst ways to ask any question. If you are dealing with someone as insecure as you, you will wait and wait and wait while they try to figure out the right way, the right time the right words and be perfect with something they have NO EXPERIENCE with. Just like you. If you don't mind the waiting "torturous" suspense… go for it.
In my opinion IT NEVER MATTERS what others think or feel about you. You have to deal with what goes on in your heart and in your head. Most of the time the other person doesn't even know they are causing you to torture yourself. Do what YOU feel like doing. OR What YOU think. As long as NO ONE gets physically hurt. You will only know if something is a MISTAKE after you take a CHANCE. Right now you are torturing yourself with curiosity. If you make a move for yourself, the other person will accept or reject you. Either way, you have your answer and the self torture STOPS, even if you are rejected. NOTHING really worth having, will be easy, but You Get To Choose, What Is Worth Having.
You will never really control WHO your Heart Desires -OR- WHEN. Your eyes will see someone or something and it will Appeal to you. It doesn't really matter what "They" think. Whats important is that your Heart Desires Him/Her and your head is afraid of getting rejected. Right? The only way to get your answer for sure, would be to approach the Guy/Girl you're asking this question about. Your Fear of Rejection is bigger than your Desire (Love/Like/Interest) for Him/Her. But you CURIOSITY IS BIGGER and it's torturing. We all go through that and we all get hurt at some point. But that torture of wondering, is what's killing you right now, RIGHT?
So ask the question to your crush. If He/She rejects you, "the wondering torture" is over. If He/She accept you, "the wondering torture" is over. You might get hurt and depressed for a little bit, but you might get your Hearts Desire and Joy. Only your crush knows and ONLY YOU need to find out. Everyone else that you know, will be okay with it if you DON'T, BUT WILL YOU BE OKAY WITH IT??

[JellyButler]

Well, if it's really hard and nearly impossible to talk to him then I think it's okay. There's nothing wrong for a girl to text/ask questions to guy first. I did that before because the guy I like is having different school as me which is pretty far and nearly impossible to meet, so I send him messages on twitter to get to know him more. That's okay xx

[kyle]

Walk up to him Before/after/during work and ask him honestly, "hey can i add you on facebook you seem really cool/interesting". He WILL say yes if he was talking to you like the way you worded it. Good luck. Oh and guys love a girl with confidence.... he will be attracted and feel less awkward/shy if YOU ask for his details.