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She says I'm special & make her smile, but wants more time?
03-25-2014, 05:03 AM
Post: #1
She says I'm special & make her smile, but wants more time?
On a summer holiday, I came across a girl from the hotel who found me on a social media site, despite not talking to each other (she came on holiday not long before I left). We are both college students (I'm a year older). We have spoken to each other every day for 3 months via text message & skype. She's smart, nice, cute, and she feels special to me (unlike most girls that I have known).

I'd like to make the trip via train when I can in a month or so, spend the day with her but we do live 4 hours apart by car, but I can use the train.
We discussed our feelings for each other the other week, trying to plan what we can do.
A couple of weeks ago, she said she liked me but also said she's confused & gets stressed, and seemed a bit negative about herself, even though it appears she wants to meet me. She actually said, 'I can be bitchy at times' which I was really puzzled about.
We've been very close for 3 months ,and I really don't want this to end. She even smiled and seemed understandably shy when I discussed the situation.
She said the day after, 'Thank you for the normal day today Smile' as she said she wanted time, as I know it will take time. We occassionally talk via Facetime for hours, and not long ago she said I was special to her & always make her smile, as she seemed down about her exam problems & helped her feel better.
We also text goodnight every night.
However, she says she wants more time but keeps texting me first every day. It makes me feel confused because I do have feelings for her & I must also concentrate on summer exams. I want to be more than a friend to her & I will make the effort, because I don't want to lose her. It may seem like a strange situation but she is very appealing to me & we seem to connect really well.
What can I do & What should I do? How long can I wait, until after the summer maybe?

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03-25-2014, 05:14 AM
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You're talking about Xbox disc on a Play Station console. Doesn't make any sense, does it? Same case with your situation. Well, women are that kind of people, so it ain't really new. As of now all I can say is she seem interested in you, or maybe like every other girl, treating you as a friend. Don't break the bonding by doing anything stupid. Just give her the time she needs and see how it goes. I don't exactly get your situation here on where you need help.

The way you said things, everything seems fine and normal. I don't see a situation here. Says more time needed, but messages you first everyday, says you're nice and talk for hours and blah blah blah. Nothing seems wrong over there. Everything seems to be going the way it should be. :/ You do keep her mind away from her stress and stuff, that's one thing she meant if you were unclear about that one... And... by bitchy she means that she can turn out to be a really rude person if she loses it. If ever you make her angry, you'll understand what she meant. Tongue But yeah, so far nothing like it happened, so no point worrying about it. You also won't have any clue on how she can be when she's mad. Maybe using all kinds of harsh words at you that might break your heart? Idk. She tried to warn you. That's about it. She probably was making sure that you knew what kind of person you're spending most of your time with. Therefore she thinks of you as a nice person. 3 months of knowing someone isn't really long enough if you'd ask me..

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03-25-2014, 05:27 AM
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However good such contact is, it is not 'real'
By all means meet up, but give her space, do
not attempt to push the pace
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